"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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she said I ask to many questions

killbill

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I was talking to this girl yesterday and anways I thought I was

doing alright on the conversation but then she tells me that I ask

to many questions and she was serious. So it kind of upset me.

I thought your suppost to ask girls questions. So my question

is do you think she was just being a ***** or what? and is there

really anything wrong with what I did?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You'll have to be more specific for anyone to give you an accurate answer.

My guess is that your questions weren't open ended enough, or she just wasn't physically attracted to you.
 

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lol!

I'm sorry that's funny,

-"Why are you asking me so many questions?"

-"Because that' show I'm supposed to talk to girls"

Anyway, are you asking the questions too close together? If you sound like. "How was your vacation? Was it fun? What did you do? How long did you stay?"
Once you're on a topic, stick there for a while, once that topic is done, then it's okay to move on to other questions. And do you sound like a reporter interviewing her?
Are you adding enthusiasm and feedback to her responses?

If you are and she's just a boring person, I wouldn't waste my time.
 
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