"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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she said I ask to many questions

killbill

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I was talking to this girl yesterday and anways I thought I was

doing alright on the conversation but then she tells me that I ask

to many questions and she was serious. So it kind of upset me.

I thought your suppost to ask girls questions. So my question

is do you think she was just being a ***** or what? and is there

really anything wrong with what I did?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Shiftkey

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You'll have to be more specific for anyone to give you an accurate answer.

My guess is that your questions weren't open ended enough, or she just wasn't physically attracted to you.
 

DJ_in_making

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lol!

I'm sorry that's funny,

-"Why are you asking me so many questions?"

-"Because that' show I'm supposed to talk to girls"

Anyway, are you asking the questions too close together? If you sound like. "How was your vacation? Was it fun? What did you do? How long did you stay?"
Once you're on a topic, stick there for a while, once that topic is done, then it's okay to move on to other questions. And do you sound like a reporter interviewing her?
Are you adding enthusiasm and feedback to her responses?

If you are and she's just a boring person, I wouldn't waste my time.
 
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