"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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she said I ask to many questions

killbill

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I was talking to this girl yesterday and anways I thought I was

doing alright on the conversation but then she tells me that I ask

to many questions and she was serious. So it kind of upset me.

I thought your suppost to ask girls questions. So my question

is do you think she was just being a ***** or what? and is there

really anything wrong with what I did?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Shiftkey

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You'll have to be more specific for anyone to give you an accurate answer.

My guess is that your questions weren't open ended enough, or she just wasn't physically attracted to you.
 

DJ_in_making

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lol!

I'm sorry that's funny,

-"Why are you asking me so many questions?"

-"Because that' show I'm supposed to talk to girls"

Anyway, are you asking the questions too close together? If you sound like. "How was your vacation? Was it fun? What did you do? How long did you stay?"
Once you're on a topic, stick there for a while, once that topic is done, then it's okay to move on to other questions. And do you sound like a reporter interviewing her?
Are you adding enthusiasm and feedback to her responses?

If you are and she's just a boring person, I wouldn't waste my time.
 
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