"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She rescheduled what we had planned..?

*Salas*

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So I was going to go out with a girl Friday, but she just texted me she cannot go because of a soccer scrimmage she has at the time planned.

She said she could go Saturday or Sunday, but do I accept the offer?

I know the soccer scrimmage is most likely legit because she plays a lot of soccer.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Watawata

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She plays soccer? Marry her now
 

Alvafe

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if she eschedule its ok you can still go if you are free
 

Watawata

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Now seriosly, are you really asking that? Why not really? Do you have to fake that you are occupied or something? start being more natural.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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*Salas*

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I was brought up on the thought that if she cancels, you next her. I guess I should have given it more thought, as she did offer two other days she could go. Thank you all for your replies.
 

Blistex

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*Salas* said:
I was brought up on the thought that if she cancels, you next her.
I know some people preach that like if it's the gospel but I think that's too much of an ultimatum. You know, sometimes people have to cancel meetings and what not. If she reschedules, that's always a good sign. ;)
 

fuko2007

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She made a counter offer ...soooooo i guess she is still interested. Was that a real question?
 

devilkingx2

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I'd recommend sunday because there's never anything to do on sundays
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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didirectors

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Yeah I had a girlfriend that would constantly cancel dates. If she rescheduled though thats probably a good sign. Just next her if she keeps doing it, other than that one or two times no big deal.
 

Skyline

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Some people actually have things to do. If she cancels BUT reschedules you're fine.
 
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