“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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She rescheduled what we had planned..?

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So I was going to go out with a girl Friday, but she just texted me she cannot go because of a soccer scrimmage she has at the time planned.

She said she could go Saturday or Sunday, but do I accept the offer?

I know the soccer scrimmage is most likely legit because she plays a lot of soccer.
 

Watawata

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She plays soccer? Marry her now
 

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if she eschedule its ok you can still go if you are free
 

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Now seriosly, are you really asking that? Why not really? Do you have to fake that you are occupied or something? start being more natural.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I was brought up on the thought that if she cancels, you next her. I guess I should have given it more thought, as she did offer two other days she could go. Thank you all for your replies.
 

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*Salas* said:
I was brought up on the thought that if she cancels, you next her.
I know some people preach that like if it's the gospel but I think that's too much of an ultimatum. You know, sometimes people have to cancel meetings and what not. If she reschedules, that's always a good sign. ;)
 

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She made a counter offer ...soooooo i guess she is still interested. Was that a real question?
 

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I'd recommend sunday because there's never anything to do on sundays
 

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Yeah I had a girlfriend that would constantly cancel dates. If she rescheduled though thats probably a good sign. Just next her if she keeps doing it, other than that one or two times no big deal.
 

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Some people actually have things to do. If she cancels BUT reschedules you're fine.
 
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