"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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She rescheduled what we had planned..?

*Salas*

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So I was going to go out with a girl Friday, but she just texted me she cannot go because of a soccer scrimmage she has at the time planned.

She said she could go Saturday or Sunday, but do I accept the offer?

I know the soccer scrimmage is most likely legit because she plays a lot of soccer.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Watawata

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She plays soccer? Marry her now
 

Alvafe

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if she eschedule its ok you can still go if you are free
 

Watawata

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Now seriosly, are you really asking that? Why not really? Do you have to fake that you are occupied or something? start being more natural.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I was brought up on the thought that if she cancels, you next her. I guess I should have given it more thought, as she did offer two other days she could go. Thank you all for your replies.
 

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*Salas* said:
I was brought up on the thought that if she cancels, you next her.
I know some people preach that like if it's the gospel but I think that's too much of an ultimatum. You know, sometimes people have to cancel meetings and what not. If she reschedules, that's always a good sign. ;)
 

fuko2007

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She made a counter offer ...soooooo i guess she is still interested. Was that a real question?
 

devilkingx2

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I'd recommend sunday because there's never anything to do on sundays
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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didirectors

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Yeah I had a girlfriend that would constantly cancel dates. If she rescheduled though thats probably a good sign. Just next her if she keeps doing it, other than that one or two times no big deal.
 

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Some people actually have things to do. If she cancels BUT reschedules you're fine.
 
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