"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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She postponed a first date: Genuine, not interested or a test?

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Hey,

I met a college girl last Thursday, and arranged a date yesterday to go out tomorrow night. (Note: She's out of this state from Wednesday night for the rest of the week).

I received a text this morning: "Hi I have to tidy my room so I can't make it tomorrow. I might be able to go out next week though."

Part of me wants to just dump her because I've possibly missed out on another event tomorrow night, but another part of me wants to believe it's a genuine need ("have to tidy my room", wtf? Is it that urgent?) and that I should make it clear somehow that I'm busy and don't stand for having my time wasted often.

What do you guys suggest I do?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Are you really going to stand for that piss poor excuse? Lets put it this way... she'd rather do laundry and pick up empty beer cans from her dorm floor then hang out with you. Yes, I'd call that disinterest.
 
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You don't really have to know what this actually is in order to react to it accordingly. If I were you I'd just tell her to call you next time she's interested in planning a date and then assume she won't call and move on. Regardless if she doesn't call you're good.
 
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I was about to say, "Do women think these excuses actually work?" but it almost worked on this guy.
You could say, "Ok, call me next week."
Or depending on how I felt I might be apt to say, "Nah, your room will get dirty by then, you'll need to tidy it up again.
 
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its a terrible excuse! this girl is ditching you to clean her room. tell her she must have time to nurrish her sole and flirt as its what jesus would've wanted! If the reigion card doesnt work, glass her in the face!

p.s. go out and meet other girls, whenever you find yourself caring if a girl is going to reply unless your outergame is super tight u will screw things up. If you are pulling in 6 numbers a night, it actually just becomes a bit of a headache remembering where u need to be and date merging seems the only logical option in this crazy world. x
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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