"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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She paid for my meal??

themyth

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I met up with a girl from my school for lunch I met this semester, wasn't considered a date but just getting a meal after I needed to pick up some school papers from her. Now before lunch we found out that we both have the same favorite food, like we both read each's mind. What ended up happening was we had a good time and she actually paid for both of our meals, she just picked it up and declined my offer.I said I'll pick up next one. How many dudes can say that a girl paying for my meal... But I'm still not convinced in her interest level in me, cause I've known a lot of girl players(I see some in her) and this girl seems to have a lot of dudes after her and she has a lot of options and possibly guys on the side, big partier like myself. I got stiff competition, I barely know her compared to these guys and I don't party with her like they do.
Now she knows I'm cool confident,we flirt at times, I'm ****y funny but maybe bit too much into myself and arrogant, we joke, eye contact etc. But I haven't yet gotten the oppotunity to pull some kino on her yet. Now what do you think, since this wasn't a date she could of at least let me pay for myself, is this a sure sign of interest or just friendly sincereity of a friend. This broad seems differnet than most I've been with and definitly piqued my interest level...feedback appreciate it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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stinkyape

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Can't be a bad thing, and could well means there's some significant interest on her part. Say thanks, but don't make a big deal out of it. Its always good to let people do favours for you, it reinforces in their mind their positive feelings about you.
 

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why do you think so much about little things, if you do that your just gonna **** up...just kick the **** back man...
 

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If she has a lot of dudes after her, it is a very good thing to have her do as many favors for you as possible. It reinforces a feeling of her "investing" in your time. And, anyone who "invests" in anything, wants a return, get it? If you buy a chick dinner, you are gonna want something back too. Besides, all the other chumps are gonna be buying her crap to try to buy her attention, and this sets you in a different frame. You have the advantage.
 

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if she doesn't know u very well and is already buying you stuff then that's an IOI. if anything, since she's so hot and so wanted she's good social proof.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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