"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She paid for my dinner.

T-Mack

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I’ve seen this girl around the college a few times. The most we have done was smile at each other and say hi when passing by. She is a HB6. Well, I got her to go out with me to dinner right on the spot because we met randomly at the same place that we were both going to eat at only to find out it was closed early because of thanksgiving break. So after introducing myself I asked her if she would like to join me to go eat at a different place.

I teased her a bit and got her laughing a few times. I spent the majority of time getting to know her to see if there was any compatibility. I wasn’t seeing much and there were points with small silences in the conversation. When we got the check I said in a non serious voice you’re paying for me right. She says sure I don’t mind. Then I said I was kidding and that I’ll pay. She still insisted on paying. I didn’t want to argue so I just said I would pay for her the next time we go out and she just smiled. Before leaving I got her number and gave her hug and left her before she paid because I was late for class.

She doesn’t look like someone I’d want to get into a relationship with. I am still a newbie and I just want to lay this girl down. The last time a girl paid for my dinner I got the LJBF’s deal the following week and we made out that same night too. What I am wondering is if I already messed up by letting her pay for me on the first date?
 

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ready123

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you're fine

and for reference, unless you choose to throw a tantrum and make a big deal out of it, whoever pays doesn't matter and won't kill your game
 
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