"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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She often says his name

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She often says the name of her boss
Someone could say it´s a normal behaviour but this
lights as red light to me

Can this be a hint that she is cheating on me ?
 

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Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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says his name during sex or sleep or what?
 

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Skel said:
says his name during sex or sleep or what?
no during sex or sleep

She only tell me about him many times durin the day
Specially she says about how competent he is in the job, and make other compliments about them as a professional
 

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I would consider red flag, but my tolerence for bullshyt is down to almost zero these days,
 

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Metro3pilot said:
I would consider red flag, but my tolerence for bullshyt is down to almost zero these days,
Word booty!

Well said.
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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amoka

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Your girl is more likely been bang by her boss. Or if she has not started doing it yet, I bet my balls she will whenever the opportunity comes. She found something admirable in her boss that you simply don't have. Something more of a courage, more balls. Listen to her when she said her boss is "competent" WTF? Why should that be your business at home? Give me a break.

She wants you to be jealous and make you become like her boss at work, simply don't mind her whenever she brings such subject up. Tell her " I met this girl at the mall today, she is very intellectual. We chatted for a while before departed".
 

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Not enough info to tell. Plus, what she sez about him is not as important as how she IS with you. If she is being the same with you then blow it off. Don't react.
 

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Give us examples of the conversations...timing (e.g. dinner, before going to bed, at bed, etc.)...frequency...ect.

It could mean NOTHING.

I had a co-worker (young female) that constantly talked about me. She STILL talks about me. I seriously doubt she sees me as something sexual and it might be more of my attitude, etc. Plus we are good friends.
 

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You guys need to simmer down.

Just because your GF talks about her boss in the first person using his name, means NOTHING by itself.

When I talk to my GF about work, I use my boss' first name as well - doesn't mean I'm about to fvck her.
 
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