"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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She needs her space

djweses89

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Yea my g/f got kind of mad at me because she told me she needs her space and i know ive been clingy to her past few days and for some reason i continued to let myself do so but besides not always being clingy with her whats some things i could do so she feels like she has her space and make that whole situation better for us. also just need to know how to make relationships last for awhile because im great at gettin with girls but my relationship skills suck j/w if anyone could help wit these 2 problems i have
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Shocker

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Uhh...she wants space...what to do...what to do...

Maybe....just maybe....give her some space?:rock:
 

Infraction

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The Shocker said:
Uhh...she wants space...what to do...what to do...

Maybe....just maybe....give her some space?:rock:
That my freind, is worth gold.
 

SnakeCharmer

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She is old enough to be dating, so she doesn't need a babysitter to follow her around... Clingy is a sign of desperation, and desperation is a sign that women see as a turn off!!!! Back off her for a few days, let her come back, and this time keep your eyes open to her needs!!!! Just because you want to be with her all the time doesn't mean you should be with her all the time!!!!
 

Lust

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djweses89 said:
Yea my g/f got kind of mad at me because she told me she needs her space and i know ive been clingy to her past few days and for some reason i continued to let myself do so but besides not always being clingy with her whats some things i could do so she feels like she has her space and make that whole situation better for us. also just need to know how to make relationships last for awhile because im great at gettin with girls but my relationship skills suck j/w if anyone could help wit these 2 problems i have
Give her space, enough space for you to go out and have fun and meet new women.

I don't suggest taking them home and fvck close them, but i suggest getting a few numbers and enjoying yourself.

It will help you forget about the whole "space" thing and you will subconsciously become less "Clingly".

Relationship advice? Keep her on her toes, keep her guessing, that's how to keep the relationship's spice.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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