"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She needs her space

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Yea my g/f got kind of mad at me because she told me she needs her space and i know ive been clingy to her past few days and for some reason i continued to let myself do so but besides not always being clingy with her whats some things i could do so she feels like she has her space and make that whole situation better for us. also just need to know how to make relationships last for awhile because im great at gettin with girls but my relationship skills suck j/w if anyone could help wit these 2 problems i have
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Uhh...she wants space...what to do...what to do...

Maybe....just maybe....give her some space?:rock:
 
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The Shocker said:
Uhh...she wants space...what to do...what to do...

Maybe....just maybe....give her some space?:rock:
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That my freind, is worth gold.
 
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She is old enough to be dating, so she doesn't need a babysitter to follow her around... Clingy is a sign of desperation, and desperation is a sign that women see as a turn off!!!! Back off her for a few days, let her come back, and this time keep your eyes open to her needs!!!! Just because you want to be with her all the time doesn't mean you should be with her all the time!!!!
 
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djweses89 said:
Yea my g/f got kind of mad at me because she told me she needs her space and i know ive been clingy to her past few days and for some reason i continued to let myself do so but besides not always being clingy with her whats some things i could do so she feels like she has her space and make that whole situation better for us. also just need to know how to make relationships last for awhile because im great at gettin with girls but my relationship skills suck j/w if anyone could help wit these 2 problems i have
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Give her space, enough space for you to go out and have fun and meet new women.

I don't suggest taking them home and fvck close them, but i suggest getting a few numbers and enjoying yourself.

It will help you forget about the whole "space" thing and you will subconsciously become less "Clingly".

Relationship advice? Keep her on her toes, keep her guessing, that's how to keep the relationship's spice.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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