She messages me after 3 months

[VladPatton]

Yeah, if she were asleep at 11pm she would of texted before work or called during the day if she had an interest. These women just don't know what the hell they want. Good moves by the way, you played it right.

 

[For_F]

Yeah, if she were asleep at 11pm she would of texted before work or called during the day if she had an interest. These women just don't know what the hell they want. Good moves by the way, you played it right.

I think they know what they want it's just where you sit amongst the b1tches want list and the type of game you show.

I sent the I'll call you message last night because I don't want to play big games with her and texting gets boring and out of the man's control real quick. I've delt with a few other women similar to this one and one simple missed call with your number can satisfy them for days and weeks. If you continue to try and call then game over basically.

 

[Skalioppe]

For_F, sometimes I really wish men on here would listen to the advice given and play the game properly and in control. You played like a fvcking master!

1. Ignored (piques her interest)
2. Called her out on random behaviour (showed her you aren't an omega b1tch)
3. Deferred contact (Knocked her off her pedestal)
4. Called later (Give her a little taster).
5. Deleted (B1tch doesn't reply or is game playing, no loss and no risk you'll turn chump).

I bet she contacts you again, $$$s on it.

 

[Cremasta]

She immediately replied saying I've wanted to contact you for a while now but bit the bullet the other day and just did it I guess.

At least you know this girl is full of crap!

Pressing 'send' on a phone and sending someone a random photo out of the blue is not 'getting in contact'.

 

[Die Hard]

You shouldn't have replied, man! That was fvcking weak...

You know, the fact that she didn't respond to you after your initial encounter, isn't even that important. She might have been in a relationship at the time and therefor ignoring you after the encounter or whatever. I think it would have been kinda anal for you to ignore her now just because she didn't respond at the time. I mean, her not responding at the time, was only strike one, and she deserves at least another chance until she hits strike two!

But she didn't make a worthwhile attempt and THAT is why you shouldn't have responded!
If she really was interested, she would send you something a little meaningful at the least, like: "Hey, I just found this pic and was wondering how you were doing!" At least that would've been a SENTENCE, for fvck sake!

Seriously, just a picture without any accompanying words at all? Or just your name with a question mark? Since when do normal people communicate through sign language and one-word sentences???

These texts didn't warrant any response from you and it was weak of you to respond anyway. The mere fact that all it takes for you to respond, is ONE PIC with no accompanying words, or only your NAME with a question mark, shows that you are low value, it shows that you are way too easy, it shows that you have no self respect. And obviously, a woman can't respect you if you don't even respect yourself...

 

[Darth]

But she didn't make a worthwhile attempt and THAT is why you shouldn't have responded!
If she really was interested, she would send you something a little meaningful at the least, like: "Hey, I just found this pic and was wondering how you were doing!" At least that would've been a SENTENCE, for fvck sake!

Seriously, just a picture without any accompanying words at all? Or just your name with a question mark? Since when do normal people communicate through sign language and one-word sentences???

Absolutely. It is disrespectful, almost laughably so. Too typical. Oh well. Congrats for deleting the number.

 

[For_F]

New text at 1 am last night: 'You didn't call me'.

I did call her two nights ago but my phone has this weird tendency to not send my number therefore coming up as a private number. Im pretty sure it would have been on when I called her though. The best she could claim is she doesnt pick up private numbers.

What to do from here? Could she really fake not receiving my call? I might send a message saying I called you on Monday night and you didn't pick up.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

New text at 1 am last night: 'You didn't call me'.

I did call her two nights ago but my phone has this weird tendency to not send my number therefore coming up as a private number. Im pretty sure it would have been on when I called her though. The best she could claim is she doesnt pick up private numbers.

What to do from here? Could she really fake not receiving my call? I might send a message saying I called you on Monday night and you didn't pick up.

Who knows. Perhaps she's in a relationship and its not working and shes looking for something on the side. which is why i said when she sent you the pic if you are just looking for some azz to have said: "Damn I look good! T1ts or GTFO!"

At this point she seems to be hinting at wanting something on the down low. Whats the worst that can happen? She disappears? Or you could be getting some azz. But you know she's a sneak already.

She's keeping up conversation. She's obviously thought about you by texting you. I'd reply back to the pic. A nude one of both of us together would be better. Fug it. You have nothing to lose dude.

 

[For_F]

Just had an exchange of messages:

Me: I called you that night but went to voicemail. If I call you around 1 today will you be free to talk?
Her: Nah I'll be at work. I didn't see you call me maybe I was asleep.
Me: I assumed you would have gotten a missed call on your phone. What time do you finish work?
Her: I just checked my phone and there was a missed call from you that night. Sometimes I check my phone in the middle of the night when Im half asleep and don't remember in the morning.
Me: I see you're just as silly as ever

Two things I want to note - One, she never even said sorry and came on rude at the beginning. I sent that last message to control the mood of our texts. I know sh1t is pretty tense atm because she's hoping for the guy she met on holidays to brighten her ego while I'm affirming that she needs to work and put out for me to make her happy. I sent the last message to make her feel as if there is light at the end of the tunnel without actually being that dude.

She hasnt replied to what time she finishes work she could have arrived there as I sent that so we'll see. I deleted her number again to prevent any unnecessary texting. Next point of contact will be a call then a meet up.

 

[NewAndImproved]

I knew she was playing you and I knew you'd respond yet again.

So now her story has changed.

First she didn't "see" that you called. Then, upon further inspection, she sees it. Even if you're still on a prehistoric flip-phone, you'll still have a call log.

Also notice that when you told her you'll call at 1, she said no without a counteroffer.

In short, GRAB YOUR SELF RESPECT GO NO CONTACT FOR LIFE!!

 

[Naughty Ninja]

Just had an exchange of messages:

Me: I called you that night but went to voicemail. If I call you around 1 today will you be free to talk?
Her: Nah I'll be at work. I didn't see you call me maybe I was asleep.
Me: I assumed you would have gotten a missed call on your phone. What time do you finish work?
Her: I just checked my phone and there was a missed call from you that night. Sometimes I check my phone in the middle of the night when Im half asleep and don't remember in the morning.
Me: I see you're just as silly as ever

Two things I want to note - One, she never even said sorry and came on rude at the beginning. I sent that last message to control the mood of our texts. I know sh1t is pretty tense atm because she's hoping for the guy she met on holidays to brighten her ego while I'm affirming that she needs to work and put out for me to make her happy. I sent the last message to make her feel as if there is light at the end of the tunnel without actually being that dude.

She hasnt replied to what time she finishes work she could have arrived there as I sent that so we'll see. I deleted her number again to prevent any unnecessary texting. Next point of contact will be a call then a meet up.

Play the game. Let her think she's "got" you. Set up a meet. Don't get butthurt about this chick. Play it cool. Meet up with her and try to fvck her brains out. Otherwise you're wasting your time with this chick period as she's only decided to come around for one thing and it's not cause she actually gives a sh1t about you from reading what you've described so far.

You have to frame your mind to think she only wants a casual encounter and play it that way. Try to meet pump and dump. Anything else is a waste of your time.

Either that or just delete her number and don't bother with her. She's most likely guaging if your interest is still there and if you'll come running to her. You need to just set up a meet and let her know in a "Nice" way you are meeting to fvck, say goodbye and nothing more.

 

[dangdang]

Ya know, after reading a bunch of these type of threads, doesn't anyone ever get sick of caring wtf you respond with?

The last time I responded simply with "Fukk Off" the girl went ape****. It was great, i didnt deal with any of these ****ing games. Cut the bullspit.


These also come to mind...

"What do you need"

"Melissa? I've been wondering what happened to you"!!!!

"Grab some knee pads, you're gonna need them"

"Ah, so you decided you have been a bad girl and need to be disciplined"

"I charge by the hour...GO"

"You're not mad at me because she gave me a BJ are ya"? Oops wrong person, what's up yo

"Hey bebe, feels like an ATM day again ;-)~"

 

[penkitten]

she is sh!t testing you right now. do not respond.

 

[VladPatton]

Damn, bro. You gotta stop dealing with this chick. I say hit the nuke button.

Mushroom cloud her aṣṣ and text her at a weird time, like noon with:

"so...you wanna fųck? (no condoms)"

lol I'd love to hear that response.

 

[Die Hard]

Ouch, this is painful to read, man... You're getting screwed over ROYALLY and you don't have a clue.

I guess you need to get burned by this girl very hard before you realize what's going on. So my advice to you is: act very submissive, kiss her feet, chase her like she is the main prize in the lottery, be a total AFC. That way, she'll hurt your feelings very soon, so you will finally realize what a cvnt you're dealing with.
Or you could just stay the clueless imbecile that you are being now and get played slooooowly...



Sorry man, I don't mean to insult you and I have the best intentions...but it's just too painful and frustrating for me to see you getting screwed over by this girl, while you don't realize it.

Hopefully, there's someone else on here who can write a lengthy explanation to you and open your eyes...

 

[Darth]

Lengthy explanation as requested.

Just had an exchange of messages:
Me: I called you that night but went to voicemail.

Unnecessary, maybe even detrimental. Sounds like you are angry in a passive aggressive way, too afraid to come out with it.

If I call you around 1 today will you be free to talk?

"Will you be free"-kind of weak, man. How about not even texting her you're going to call? How about just calling at 1? Better still, how about just ignoring her after her previous display of disrespect and her lame non-apology. By responding you accept this behavior.

Her: Nah I'll be at work. I didn't see you call me maybe I was asleep.

This is just complete and total bullsh!t. Her "Nah I'll be at work" is also disrespect without expressing interest in talking at a different time.

At this point, I would end contact.

Me: I assumed you would have gotten a missed call on your phone.

Dude, more passive-aggressive stuff. She's not your girlfriend, so why are you offended? Why not just laugh it off? If you are actually angry, then blast her. Don't go halfway. Better yet, don't even address it.

What time do you finish work?

Again, this is like a repeat of your first text. You passive-aggressively whine about her misbehavior, and then in the very same text basically say, "So when do you want to talk to me? Please please please please." Do you see how that shows her that her behavior was acceptable and shows her you have no standards for communication? Or worse yet, do you see how it shows her you have standards but you will bend all of your rules specially for her because....why. Because she's hot and nothing else matters?

If it were me I wouldn't be trying to arrange a meetup. I would be waiting for her to explain herself.

Her: I just checked my phone and there was a missed call from you that night. Sometimes I check my phone in the middle of the night when Im half asleep and don't remember in the morning.

My BS alarm just went off again. This is TOTAL BULLSH!T. A good response would be: "That's total bullsh!t." Then end communication. Pretty rude though- how about "Whatever, chick." No, still rude.

I'm having trouble composing a polite message because that is so blatantly disrespectful. Best response to that is NO response.

Me: I see you're just as silly as ever

No, dude. No. No. She was not "silly." She was COMPLETELY UNACCEPTABLE. The smiley face is NOT GOOD-like you're afraid you upset her and want to make sure she still likes you. Every single text you have sent says, "I accept this behavior I normally find unacceptable because you are hot."

Do you see what happened? You were too desperate, you texted too much, and based on your responses you let her get away with murder.

You'll do better next time, hang in there.

 

[For_F]

Lol thanks for the advice dudes. Ive got good game with most chix but admittedly there have been a few who I place great value on and in turn it makes me behave less than ideal.

So basically now after all has been said and done the fact remains that I do want this girl. Some of you have made it obvious that she doesn't want me though and just using me as a fvckstick on the side to boost ego and to fulfil her want for attention and drama.

Do I completely go nc now until she perhaps calls me asking to meet up? If she starts sending more respectful messages do I reply? I know some say leave it but chick is so damn fine and as long as she doesn't consume my life than a potential lay with this hb9 is a possibility no?

 

[For_F]

Darth just read what you wrote about letting her know that I have standards but am willing tobend all rules for her and that's very true.

I think she knows buy how I was when I met her that im no b1tch. I was very confident and aggressive with her that night and had her begging to stay with her all day and night leaving her friends that she came down with. But I guess now she's testing me and Im failing lol.

 

[Darth]

*sigh*

Tell her you love her and you can't live without her, you've got to have her or you'll die.

 

[For_F]

Lol k