"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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johnny_depp

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I met this girl about 6 months ago she is so fun to talk to, me and her get along and everything so good. She even tells me that she likes being around me and all. But the thing is she has a b/f she is 24 the dude is 24 and im 19. Me and her write to each other on myspace.com Like she will start it writting stuff asking me where im at. I forgot to mention me and her work in the same building. She will write stuff like so were you here today, stuff like that like as if she cares. seriously I get mixed feeling as if she likes me. What do you guys think I should do? also she has been with her b/f for 5 years but the thing is he is nerer around for her like hes at his house doing other ****. and she always invites me over but I make up excuses cause I dont want to be her biitch just cause she feels lonely. My other friends think that maybe she just wants to use me cause her man is never around but I dont know. so I would like some opinion.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I think she is just telling you that she has a b/f but doesn't have one - don't use myspace to talk to her - talk to her in person!! However, if she has a b/f then don't go to her place - it may be a set-up to get him jealous!!!
 
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Im thinking that her BF is boring her and shes seeking attention elsewhere. She likes you, but not enough to break up with her BF. Sounds to me she is trying to get the best of both worlds. You are providing her with something she aint getting at home....you are bringing out her personality like her BF isn't. No doubt they probably fight all the time. But he is probably paying her bills or something that she can't let him go just yet. Can't persue this until she is single. Also you don't want a 6'3" 225 lb boyfriend coming for you...unless you are 6'4" and 235....lol.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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She's not leaving the bf, but might be into fvcking you behind his back at certain opportune moments but ehhh...

dosen't sound like she's invested into you sexually, 6 months and you're still talking to her on myspace. You've been a girlfriend for sometime now, invest your energy into new women bro.


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dude I dont give a **** about myspace actually shes the one that said you know what, you should get a myspace account and so I did. I barelly go on the ****ing thing. maybe once a week. also we dont talk often on it. I talk more to her when I see her at work.
 

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^ ^ Dosen't change the fact you are her girlfriend bro


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