"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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johnny_depp

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I met this girl about 6 months ago she is so fun to talk to, me and her get along and everything so good. She even tells me that she likes being around me and all. But the thing is she has a b/f she is 24 the dude is 24 and im 19. Me and her write to each other on myspace.com Like she will start it writting stuff asking me where im at. I forgot to mention me and her work in the same building. She will write stuff like so were you here today, stuff like that like as if she cares. seriously I get mixed feeling as if she likes me. What do you guys think I should do? also she has been with her b/f for 5 years but the thing is he is nerer around for her like hes at his house doing other ****. and she always invites me over but I make up excuses cause I dont want to be her biitch just cause she feels lonely. My other friends think that maybe she just wants to use me cause her man is never around but I dont know. so I would like some opinion.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I think she is just telling you that she has a b/f but doesn't have one - don't use myspace to talk to her - talk to her in person!! However, if she has a b/f then don't go to her place - it may be a set-up to get him jealous!!!
 
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Pakwah

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Im thinking that her BF is boring her and shes seeking attention elsewhere. She likes you, but not enough to break up with her BF. Sounds to me she is trying to get the best of both worlds. You are providing her with something she aint getting at home....you are bringing out her personality like her BF isn't. No doubt they probably fight all the time. But he is probably paying her bills or something that she can't let him go just yet. Can't persue this until she is single. Also you don't want a 6'3" 225 lb boyfriend coming for you...unless you are 6'4" and 235....lol.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Cod3r

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She's not leaving the bf, but might be into fvcking you behind his back at certain opportune moments but ehhh...

dosen't sound like she's invested into you sexually, 6 months and you're still talking to her on myspace. You've been a girlfriend for sometime now, invest your energy into new women bro.


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johnny_depp

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dude I dont give a **** about myspace actually shes the one that said you know what, you should get a myspace account and so I did. I barelly go on the ****ing thing. maybe once a week. also we dont talk often on it. I talk more to her when I see her at work.
 

Cod3r

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^ ^ Dosen't change the fact you are her girlfriend bro


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