"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I met this girl about 6 months ago she is so fun to talk to, me and her get along and everything so good. She even tells me that she likes being around me and all. But the thing is she has a b/f she is 24 the dude is 24 and im 19. Me and her write to each other on myspace.com Like she will start it writting stuff asking me where im at. I forgot to mention me and her work in the same building. She will write stuff like so were you here today, stuff like that like as if she cares. seriously I get mixed feeling as if she likes me. What do you guys think I should do? also she has been with her b/f for 5 years but the thing is he is nerer around for her like hes at his house doing other ****. and she always invites me over but I make up excuses cause I dont want to be her biitch just cause she feels lonely. My other friends think that maybe she just wants to use me cause her man is never around but I dont know. so I would like some opinion.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I think she is just telling you that she has a b/f but doesn't have one - don't use myspace to talk to her - talk to her in person!! However, if she has a b/f then don't go to her place - it may be a set-up to get him jealous!!!
 
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Im thinking that her BF is boring her and shes seeking attention elsewhere. She likes you, but not enough to break up with her BF. Sounds to me she is trying to get the best of both worlds. You are providing her with something she aint getting at home....you are bringing out her personality like her BF isn't. No doubt they probably fight all the time. But he is probably paying her bills or something that she can't let him go just yet. Can't persue this until she is single. Also you don't want a 6'3" 225 lb boyfriend coming for you...unless you are 6'4" and 235....lol.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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She's not leaving the bf, but might be into fvcking you behind his back at certain opportune moments but ehhh...

dosen't sound like she's invested into you sexually, 6 months and you're still talking to her on myspace. You've been a girlfriend for sometime now, invest your energy into new women bro.


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dude I dont give a **** about myspace actually shes the one that said you know what, you should get a myspace account and so I did. I barelly go on the ****ing thing. maybe once a week. also we dont talk often on it. I talk more to her when I see her at work.
 

Cod3r

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^ ^ Dosen't change the fact you are her girlfriend bro


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