she makes annoying comments about dating a rich guy

[Jetleg]

Im dating this girl for 2 months, we are exclusive.

We met in college, she is cute and respectful, and has high IL.

Im poor as sh1t and she knows that. (still makes more than her though) Things are good but she makes annoying comments about dating a rich guy. i thought it was a joke, and just told her to go for it. She kinda brings it everytime, almost to remind me how much of a loser im?

What the f*ck?

 

[Roober]

If you ever have money, she will expect you to spend it on her... sounds like she is testing you...

 

[Mike32ct]

she is respectful.

she makes annoying comments about dating a rich guy. i thought it was a joke, and just told her to go for it. She kinda brings it everytime, almost to remind me how much of a loser im?

What the f*ck?

She's not so respectful.

I would start looking for the nearest exit.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Let her go. She obviously thinks about it a lot, so cut to the chase and beat her to the dump. She thinks you won't leave. So leave her, dumbfounded.

She'll find her rich guy, get married, have three kids, get fat and ugly on TV dinners and take-aways.

Then, in twenty years, when you're still dating model-looking chicks in their early twenties because you looked after yourself (and left entitled idiots like this behind), and she and her husband have rolled right through the wall, facing divorce, she'll wish she'd stuck with your poor a$$ rather than taken the early payday.

Seriously, when a girl pulls this kind of 'joke' more than three times, I'm out. When a girl 'jokes' about something more than once, it's not a joke. It's something she actually thinks about, probably quite a lot.

 

[PantyWhisperer]

Let her go. She obviously thinks about it a lot, so cut to the chase and beat her to the dump. She thinks you won't leave. So leave her, dumbfounded.

She'll find her rich guy, get married, have three kids, get fat and ugly on TV dinners and take-aways.

Then, in twenty years, when you're still dating model-looking chicks in their early twenties because you looked after yourself (and left entitled idiots like this behind), and she and her husband have rolled right through the wall, facing divorce, she'll wish she'd stuck with your poor a$$ rather than taken the early payday.

Seriously, when a girl pulls this kind of 'joke' more than three times, I'm out. When a girl 'jokes' about something more than once, it's not a joke. It's something she actually thinks about, probably quite a lot.

100% agree. Those little "jokes" are digs that have an underlying message. Let her go date a rich guy then. I had a GF like this years ago, and she did go back to chasing rich guys and married one who is much older. Now she's a corporate widow who was texting me a few years back looking to hook up. Kids are grown and she's lonely. She's living the song "Lying Eyes".
Life is its own reward, often, and sometimes it takes years for it to play out and for you to see it clearly.

 

[Roober]

100% agree. Those little "jokes" are digs that have an underlying message. Let her go date a rich guy then. I had a GF like this years ago, and she did go back to chasing rich guys and married one who is much older. Now she's a corporate widow who was texting me a few years back looking to hook up. Kids are grown and she's lonely. She's living the song "Lying Eyes".
Life is its own reward, often, and sometimes it takes years for it to play out and for you to see it clearly.

Agreed man! Adding that to my knowledge... little jokes that are consistent are showing an underlying message... in this case, she is a money grubber. In my case, it was breaking up.

 

[bigneil]

Girls want children.

Children are expensive.

Therefore, girls need men with resources to have children.

The problem is not her, it's this mentality that you are entitled to a replacement mom one generation younger. Get a job and thank her for inspiring you.

 

[bigneil]

"Of what the heart is full, the mouth overflows."

This is very true. Always look at what words your girlfriend is texting you.

Best words:

1) Love
2) (Red heart symbol)
3) Excited
4) (your examples here)

Note the frequency that she uses these words, or whatever words she has as her orgasmic keywords. I once dated a girl and later realized that every time she ever texted a smiley face, we had sex later that night.

Also, choose your own words carefully. For example, avoid saying "No problem", "Don't worry" or "Never fear". Say more positive versions of those.

 

[Bible_Belt]

The problem is not her, it's this mentality that you are entitled to a replacement mom one generation younger. Get a job and thank her for inspiring you.

I'm getting sick of your snide comments about how superior you are to the rest of mankind because you have more money. You're obviously a very insecure person with a need to lord your financial status over other people, which is sad and pathetic.

 

[narcissist]

There is always a little bit of truth embedded in jokes. Never forget that my brother. I would seriously think about how many times she has played this joke on you. If it is any more than twice, then this is a pretty good sign that she is thinking about this topic of "rich guys" a lot and as LARaiders alluded to, the mouth cannot help but spit out what the heart desires.

Good luck.

 

[bigneil]

I'm getting sick of your snide comments about how superior you are to the rest of mankind because you have more money. You're obviously a very insecure person with a need to lord your financial status over other people, which is sad and pathetic.

And I'm getting tired of paying for your Prozac and Doritos while holding your hand as you realize you still don't have what it takes to score. Try working harder.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I don't have what it takes to score with one of those flat-chested, mud-faced Russian hookers you like so much, you're right about that.

You, on the other hand, don't have what it takes to score with a woman who wants you for anything other than your wallet. Try working harder on that. Because right now, you don't believe it's possible. You don't believe that a woman could ever want you for anything other than your money, which is a reflection of how you view your own self-worth. Until you get over that self-limiting belief, the only women you'll be able to get will be wh0res.

 

[Roober]

Great examples of losing frame guys... just my two cents!

 

[bigneil]

I don't believe any woman would ever want me for anything besides my money? Less than a month ago I took my favorite Hooter's waitress home. She was 19. I spent $8.

Currently, I'm dating the most beautiful woman I ever saw (she was older when I met her, being 20). I take her to 5 star hotels because I can afford to. I'll post more photos next week when we do the lingerie shoot.

 

[Jetleg]

Girls want children.

Children are expensive.

Therefore, girls need men with resources to have children.

The problem is not her, it's this mentality that you are entitled to a replacement mom one generation younger. Get a job and thank her for inspiring you.

I HAVE a job.

i thought you were joking when i read the first 2 lines, honestly. you sound kinda like a feminist.

 

[narcissist]

Oh sh1t.. AMOG thread. *grabs popcorn*

 

[bigneil]

Hot girls, regardless of age, will almost always choose cool and higher status guys for as long as they can until they see almost all of their looks fade.

Yes, and guys have higher status years after college.

I HAVE a job.

i thought you were joking when i read the first 2 lines, honestly. you sound kinda like a feminist.

Feminist??? Feminists say the OPPOSITE. They say men and women are exactly the same and should go dutch and he should change 50% of the diapers. You young guys with no jobs need to realize it's not the fact the women are corrupted - it's the fact you can't afford to raise a family that is the issue here.

Oh well, I need to get back to the 3 girls who are texting me to ask me out.

 

[sazc]

My aunt used to tease my uncle "that's okay, my next husband will (buy me that, do that for me, etc....)" when she said this to him it was clear that she was teasing and clear that they had layers of chemistry between them. 25 years later they are still happily married.

Is she doing this to sting you? If that is the case, she does not care for you as deeply as she needs to. She's really not demonstrating behavior that should earn her a high value status with you. Essentially, she believes she can be disrespectful to you without repercussion.

Elevate your boundaries. Not only should no woman ever disrespect you like this, people like these are essentially bullies, and make horrible long term partners.

 

[BeExcellent]

100% agree. Those little "jokes" are digs that have an underlying message. Let her go date a rich guy then. I had a GF like this years ago, and she did go back to chasing rich guys and married one who is much older. Now she's a corporate widow who was texting me a few years back looking to hook up. Kids are grown and she's lonely. She's living the song "Lying Eyes".
Life is its own reward, often, and sometimes it takes years for it to play out and for you to see it clearly.

That's sad. Deserved but sad. For all involved. That Eagles song is haunting because it is common.

My question to OP is why are you exclusive? You'll up your value a great deal by refusing exclusivity. Never reward bad behavior. Never ever.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

100% agree. Those little "jokes" are digs that have an underlying message. Let her go date a rich guy then. I had a GF like this years ago, and she did go back to chasing rich guys and married one who is much older. Now she's a corporate widow who was texting me a few years back looking to hook up. Kids are grown and she's lonely. She's living the song "Lying Eyes".
Life is its own reward, often, and sometimes it takes years for it to play out and for you to see it clearly.

It's true. Trouble is young girls are blinded by shiny things.

I work in a part of town where all the money is. The boutique stores mostly cater to kept women. It's all high fashion, high-end branding. You'll only ever see women in the daytime; 'ladies doing lunch', otherwise wandering round aimlessly in tight sports wear, because they did half an hour of yoga this morning. Some of them are hot to be fair; otherwise vacuous empty vessels of gestation. All this being said, they look fcking bored out of their minds. I get checked out a lot.

Conversely, I live in a part of town where there is limited money (in comparison). Women are usually engaged in conversation, and it is actually quite difficult to get their attention some times. They mostly have high energy and seem happy. Though they don't wear the fancy clothes, they are more attractive owing to their vivacity.

I think I have it the right way round.