"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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PantyWhisperer

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It's true. Trouble is young girls are blinded by shiny things.

I work in a part of town where all the money is. The boutique stores mostly cater to kept women. It's all high fashion, high-end branding. You'll only ever see women in the daytime; 'ladies doing lunch', otherwise wandering round aimlessly in tight sports wear, because they did half an hour of yoga this morning. Some of them are hot to be fair; otherwise vacuous empty vessels of gestation. All this being said, they look fcking bored out of their minds. I get checked out a lot.

Conversely, I live in a part of town where there is limited money (in comparison). Women are usually engaged in conversation, and it is actually quite difficult to get their attention some times. They mostly have high energy and seem happy. Though they don't wear the fancy clothes, they are more attractive owing to their vivacity.

I think I have it the right way round.
The shame of it is that there are a fair number of the women you describe in your second group, who would gladly move up to the first group, having no idea that an old adage is true (that's how they become adages... ;))
Money can't buy happiness.
"Late at night, a big old house gets lonely"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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