"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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She loves to party

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dude, the primary reason your girl likes clubbing is for the attention from other guys and the whole girls night out female attention thing from the guys.

does your girlfriend have alot of man friends? although this is very common, I was in the same position as you and my advice would be to Forget about marrage!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dude just wtf you mean you don't own her? I have a girl, and we have a mutual understanding if both don't go nobody goes. If you want to marry her you have to cut her off gradually from things and activities. Hire a detective, it's not that expensive, let him tell you what she does, then you will know marriage material or not.
 

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pdx1138 said:
Dude, she's 22.

OF COURSE she's going to want to party, thats what 20's are for.

If you want a girl thats less into clubbing, you have to find ones in
their mid 30's.
Not! My gf is 23, 22 when we met. Everyone loves to party, but come on when in relationship you do things together. F'ck that femenist ideas you people love to dig.
 

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backseatjuan said:
Not! My gf is 23, 22 when we met. Everyone loves to party, but come on when in relationship you do things together. F'ck that femenist ideas you people love to dig.
some girls will say that they just want a night out with her girlfriends?


absolutely not they should be in the kitchen
 

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backseatjuan said:
Not! My gf is 23, 22 when we met. Everyone loves to party, but come on when in relationship you do things together. F'ck that femenist ideas you people love to dig.

Not the same thing Juan.

Girls in their early 20's NOT in relationships go clubbing once or twice a month....minimum.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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