"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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She loves to party

john1234

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dude, the primary reason your girl likes clubbing is for the attention from other guys and the whole girls night out female attention thing from the guys.

does your girlfriend have alot of man friends? although this is very common, I was in the same position as you and my advice would be to Forget about marrage!!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dude just wtf you mean you don't own her? I have a girl, and we have a mutual understanding if both don't go nobody goes. If you want to marry her you have to cut her off gradually from things and activities. Hire a detective, it's not that expensive, let him tell you what she does, then you will know marriage material or not.
 

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pdx1138 said:
Dude, she's 22.

OF COURSE she's going to want to party, thats what 20's are for.

If you want a girl thats less into clubbing, you have to find ones in
their mid 30's.
Not! My gf is 23, 22 when we met. Everyone loves to party, but come on when in relationship you do things together. F'ck that femenist ideas you people love to dig.
 

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backseatjuan said:
Not! My gf is 23, 22 when we met. Everyone loves to party, but come on when in relationship you do things together. F'ck that femenist ideas you people love to dig.
some girls will say that they just want a night out with her girlfriends?


absolutely not they should be in the kitchen
 

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backseatjuan said:
Not! My gf is 23, 22 when we met. Everyone loves to party, but come on when in relationship you do things together. F'ck that femenist ideas you people love to dig.

Not the same thing Juan.

Girls in their early 20's NOT in relationships go clubbing once or twice a month....minimum.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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