"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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dude, the primary reason your girl likes clubbing is for the attention from other guys and the whole girls night out female attention thing from the guys.

does your girlfriend have alot of man friends? although this is very common, I was in the same position as you and my advice would be to Forget about marrage!!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dude just wtf you mean you don't own her? I have a girl, and we have a mutual understanding if both don't go nobody goes. If you want to marry her you have to cut her off gradually from things and activities. Hire a detective, it's not that expensive, let him tell you what she does, then you will know marriage material or not.
 
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pdx1138 said:
Dude, she's 22.

OF COURSE she's going to want to party, thats what 20's are for.

If you want a girl thats less into clubbing, you have to find ones in
their mid 30's.
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Not! My gf is 23, 22 when we met. Everyone loves to party, but come on when in relationship you do things together. F'ck that femenist ideas you people love to dig.
 
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backseatjuan said:
Not! My gf is 23, 22 when we met. Everyone loves to party, but come on when in relationship you do things together. F'ck that femenist ideas you people love to dig.
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some girls will say that they just want a night out with her girlfriends?


absolutely not they should be in the kitchen
 
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backseatjuan said:
Not! My gf is 23, 22 when we met. Everyone loves to party, but come on when in relationship you do things together. F'ck that femenist ideas you people love to dig.
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Not the same thing Juan.

Girls in their early 20's NOT in relationships go clubbing once or twice a month....minimum.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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