"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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she looks down fast

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I have been having this problem that when im in the public and I see a HB I smile at her and she hurries and looks down. I have noticed this for like a week and truthfully it makes me feel a little odd. Now my question is When I smile at a hottie and she hurries and looks down does that mean shes embaressed to look at me or what? and is that a bad sign? please help me out.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I've heard that looking down is a good sign and can mean that they're attracted to you. Dunno how reliable that is though.


btw avril lavigne is hot. I have her on my desktop wallpaper lol, it's kinda sad really.:crackup:
 

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Looking down is a sign of submission. She could be naturally subservient or shy.
 

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it could mean a few things

she likes you

she's shy and is afraid to make eye contact with anybody

she is avoiding eye contact with you because she doesn't want you to think she likes you and doesn't want you to approach her
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I agree with the above.

I'm curious, are you really good looking? I wonder if that may be part of it. Either that, or maybe you're just like exuding self confidence... and they can smell it.

Anyone else have any thoughts? Thanks
 

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she is avoiding eye contact with you because she doesn't want you to think she likes you and doesn't want you to approach her [/B]


I know a girl that does this alot with people. I think she just gets tired of getting hit on. Sort of a passive ***** shield. She thinks (probably rightly so) that all the guys wanna **** her.

If she's ready to be approached, she'll signal cues like being coy and flirty and such. Rather than completely avoiding eye contact.

But, this same girl will be all up on you, purring like a kitten, initiating kino with you one moment. Two minutes later you pass each other in the hall or something, and she'll act like you're invisible, or you're a leper or something.

And she'll think nothing of it. Congruence doesn't matter to her. She usually gets away with whatever she wants most of the time.

Sometimes logic doesn't apply. Just approach.
 

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Assume she always likes you, until she gives you the NO sign, This message brought to you be the elite So Suave Squad - Trust no other
 
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