"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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She lives an hour's drive away from me

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I won't go into the details of how we met, but this chick lives in another city, an hour's drive away from where I live. Thankfully, I have until the end of Monday to get her number, so I can spend some more time building rapport and getting to know her to see if she's really worth my time at all, but the distance thing is still bothering me. Have any of you went for a girl who lives this kind of distance away from you? And did the distance make it too difficult for things to work?

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Update: I have her number, and its more like 45 minutes away.
 
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At first I'd probably see her once a week; same kind of dating frequency I'd have with a girl who lives closer to me. My concern is more to do with if I want to take things farther, since if I did, I'd probably want to see her more often. The distance might make that more of a hassle.

Anyway, I've decided to give it a shot anyway. Nothing ventured, nothing gained, yeah? Besides, maybe I'll find that the distance isn't much of an issue after all.
 
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Dude my ***** lives 3,048 miles away. You can make it work, believe me.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dude,i think it is a big distance :) .I dont say it is bad to have distant relationship, but thunk again,how can you love someone you cant see?someone you cant touch or talk with when you fall upset?

In my opinion your girl must be next to you,so you can share with her your happiest moments :)


P.S. If the girl of course is super super super duper cool and she likes you , you can try :)
 
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