“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
She likes someone else
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Pimp-sicle
Master Don Juan
PIMP
Bungo Pony
Master Don Juan
Now, GO GET THAT PIECE OF ASS!!
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Walden
Master Don Juan
Listen to GigaloDJ.
squirrels
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With the wealth of information you've provided on this situation, I see you having two choices:
1) Take her
2) Find someone else.
Really, when you say she has an idea that you like her, how does she act toward you? Is she MORE friendly because of this or LESS friendly? Does she talk to you more or is she more distant?
BTW, how did she "get this idea" that you like her?
assasin
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Why would this be any better than taking Bungo's advice and asking her out? Because he wouldn't have to hear "No" if she wasn't interested?
If he doesn't ask her the simple yes or no question "Do you want to go out sometime" he will never get to hear "yes" He'd just wind up bumbling about in his current state of limbo while some other guy got there first.
Don't fear rejection, embrace the power it gives you to ground yourself in reality.
Thing is, she's really friendly towards me. Get lots of eye contact. Smiles a lot. And even tries to carry the convo. on sometime. Dunno if it's cause she sorta likes me, or cause she knows I like her, and wants to play gamesOriginally posted by squirrels
With the wealth of information you've provided on this situation, I see you having two choices:
1) Take her
2) Find someone else.
Really, when you say she has an idea that you like her, how does she act toward you? Is she MORE friendly because of this or LESS friendly? Does she talk to you more or is she more distant?
A friend told her (a guy friend)
squirrels
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1) Tell your friends to keep their big mouths shut.
2) Instead of making a move yourself and finding out if she really DOES like you, you're asking a bunch of people on an internet message board. Sorry, we've never met her, so we can't answer your "does she like me" question.
Take the advice of some of the above posters and DO SOMETHING. Just read some of the DJ Bible stuff first, so you don't end up going up to her and saying, "I love you!" or something.
seulaxplaya
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considering she may think u like her. show her that you dont. example by doing this. go out with other girls talk about other people. if she likes you will be able to tell how she reacts to you by telling her all this. if she asks questions about the person you are talking about thats a good sign shes interested. if she doesnt then oh well.