"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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she likes control

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hey yall

i know its been awhile, but actually when i realized that (as bruce lee put it) "learning is not enough, you must apply" i have been more succesful...sh*it ive grown balls since i left here, i looked through here for teh wrong reasons: cause i wasnt paitient enough to do it on my own, i wanted a quick fix for women and thats not gonna happen...and id like to thank the tough love fools for saying that stuff to me, even though it took a minute to realize it...lol

but on to my question wats a original way to deal with girls who want control? i have met two girls this year who are like that, i messed around with one, but it didnt work out, and the other i havent had much contact with cause she is starting college at uc davis...she said that when she knows a guy is feeling her, she plays hard to get to teh 10 power lol...would a good way of dealing wiht her be to show interest then back away? thanks for your input
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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la-migra-is-after-me said:
but on to my question wats a original way to deal with girls who want control? i have met two girls this year who are like that, i messed around with one, but it didnt work out, and the other i havent had much contact with cause she is starting college at uc davis...she said that when she knows a guy is feeling her, she plays hard to get to teh 10 power lol...would a good way of dealing wiht her be to show interest then back away? thanks for your input

You don't play her game and get a female that knows the natural order of things.
 
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lol good answer

yeah that was wat i was thinking either that or shower her with neg hits
 
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