"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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she likes control

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hey yall

i know its been awhile, but actually when i realized that (as bruce lee put it) "learning is not enough, you must apply" i have been more succesful...sh*it ive grown balls since i left here, i looked through here for teh wrong reasons: cause i wasnt paitient enough to do it on my own, i wanted a quick fix for women and thats not gonna happen...and id like to thank the tough love fools for saying that stuff to me, even though it took a minute to realize it...lol

but on to my question wats a original way to deal with girls who want control? i have met two girls this year who are like that, i messed around with one, but it didnt work out, and the other i havent had much contact with cause she is starting college at uc davis...she said that when she knows a guy is feeling her, she plays hard to get to teh 10 power lol...would a good way of dealing wiht her be to show interest then back away? thanks for your input
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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la-migra-is-after-me said:
but on to my question wats a original way to deal with girls who want control? i have met two girls this year who are like that, i messed around with one, but it didnt work out, and the other i havent had much contact with cause she is starting college at uc davis...she said that when she knows a guy is feeling her, she plays hard to get to teh 10 power lol...would a good way of dealing wiht her be to show interest then back away? thanks for your input

You don't play her game and get a female that knows the natural order of things.
 
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lol good answer

yeah that was wat i was thinking either that or shower her with neg hits
 
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