"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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she likes control

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hey yall

i know its been awhile, but actually when i realized that (as bruce lee put it) "learning is not enough, you must apply" i have been more succesful...sh*it ive grown balls since i left here, i looked through here for teh wrong reasons: cause i wasnt paitient enough to do it on my own, i wanted a quick fix for women and thats not gonna happen...and id like to thank the tough love fools for saying that stuff to me, even though it took a minute to realize it...lol

but on to my question wats a original way to deal with girls who want control? i have met two girls this year who are like that, i messed around with one, but it didnt work out, and the other i havent had much contact with cause she is starting college at uc davis...she said that when she knows a guy is feeling her, she plays hard to get to teh 10 power lol...would a good way of dealing wiht her be to show interest then back away? thanks for your input
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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la-migra-is-after-me said:
but on to my question wats a original way to deal with girls who want control? i have met two girls this year who are like that, i messed around with one, but it didnt work out, and the other i havent had much contact with cause she is starting college at uc davis...she said that when she knows a guy is feeling her, she plays hard to get to teh 10 power lol...would a good way of dealing wiht her be to show interest then back away? thanks for your input

You don't play her game and get a female that knows the natural order of things.
 
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lol good answer

yeah that was wat i was thinking either that or shower her with neg hits
 
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