“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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she left me letter after date saying i owe her a dinner

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what happend was i told her we going ruby tuesday but wait was long i didnt wanna miss movie we ate at mall then saw movie. next day she left me letter saying i owe her dinner there. Advice?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I'm gonna guess that "Ruby" is an expensive place, you took her to a cheaper place and paid for all of it then probably paid for her movie ticket as well. Let's analyze this! :D

What have you proved to her? By paying for her meal and her movie ticket you proved you are willing to pay for her stuff. Now considering you wanted to take her to a more exclusive restaurant and you are probably extremely gullible and ignorant, she has now figured she can (ab)use you. She knows you pay, she knows you're an AFC and since you said you would take her to that place and you didn't, she has figured you owe her that.

So, solution time. You've put yourself in a sticky situation, there's theoretically a chance for you to get this working. Realistically however this chance is slim to none considering your unrefined way of handling dilemmas. So I'm going to make it a choice for you, not one solution but two. There's the hard way, which is to go on that date and whatever happens will not end well for you. It's hard because you will somewhere down the road realize how royally you fvcked up and cry in sheer pain. Then there's the easy way, heed my advice and never talk to this chick again. It's easy because you save yourself the trouble, the pain and the money, but you'll not truly know why I'm giving you this advice.

I recommend the hard way, because not until you (in particular) have dragged yourself through the sh!t will you learn. Then you will understand why we act the way we do, why we rep you badly and why we give you this type of advice.

So yeah, enjoy your date with a gold digger. Don't make a thread about how to get her to pay, even though I know you will regardless of me saying this. Go out and fvck up, it's good for you :D
 

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She's trying to flirt. It's an indication of interest. If you were a total creepo that she couldn't stand, she would not put up with you for another date just to get a free meal.

You didn't quote her letter as saying she owed you a nice dinner. Take her someplace cheap, but make it involve more thought than a food court. It can be a hot dog cart, as long as the point of taking her there is that you are insisting they make the best damn hot dog in the city. Or pick a type of ethnic food, and find a little, out of the way restaurant. You can get away with cheap if you just put some thought and planning into it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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thelonewolflegend said:
how do i know where I should take her dinner or it cost too much?"

PLEASE ADVISE
"I know a nice place for dinner. Come by my place at xxx, bring some wine."
 

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thelonewolflegend said:
so should I never take her out for dinner?
Well if you want to blow a huge load of money on a potential fvck by all means. Better to get her to your place asap if you want to fvck her.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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man jus take her to get some food that is cheap. y is this a big hassle?
 

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Dude.. You serious? Learn to think for yourself man. You shouldnt have to constantly come back here asking people to make every little decision for you.
 
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Yes I am SERIOUS HELP! How the f do I know like come on you tell me not to buy her dinner then I should buy her cheap dinner HELP!
 

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You're spending time with a woman and all you can think of is how to deal with the massively huge problem of dinner? You're there to see her, not for the food. If she is there for the food and not to be with you, then you have already failed. If a woman is interested in YOU she won't give sh!t if the food is cheap or not, she won't even give a sh!t if there even is food.

You can draw your own conclusion from that.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Can i have serious answer on what i should do then! How do you know when u should take girl nice dinner?
 

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No!! Because I want you to use your fvcking brain and not be a fvcking pain in the a$$. It's your fvcking life, your fvcking responsibility and your fvcking choice.

Are you completely oblivious to the fact that people on here regard you as a retarded idiot? Are you also oblivious to the fact that you have over 650 useless posts? How about the fact your reputation bar is more red than your mother on her period?

I gave you a serious fvcking answer. You expect a logical 1 or 0, yes or no, black or white answer. Let me give you that then, but take this fvcking seriously.

Here it is: DO NOT TAKE WOMAN TO DINNER!
 
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ok i just dont understand howcome no one told me this? and said girls want to be wined and dined every once in a while??????? someone on here said this to me last year
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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