lizardking82
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Absolutely agree. I never comment LOL
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She leaves the message on "seen"
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Magotrox
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I guess you can go both games - face to face and online. When I was younger, I met lots of girls on line, including real beauties 8's, 9's. I just tried to be natural and fun. And it worked. But you need to make the same vibe when you meet her face to face. Yet, nowdays I'm busy, and just don't have time to text games. Thats it. But I think the best way is to know how to play in any circunstances, like Aristoteles would say: right time, right people, right way.
this a double edged sword i agree you need to get messages going, but its fcking annoying when youve sat there for time over 7 days you thinking your gonna meet...and she has no intention of meeting or even cancelling and letting you know
The Diver
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Not sure about that one ^, A girl I dated once,told me after I dated her for few months, that "She still don't know who I really am".It didn't turn her off, the opposite, you could see how it's driven her crazy, unable to figure me out. I kept the mystery by ignoring some of her questions ,not disclosing too much private information and kept texting to bare minimum ,,,
Magotrox
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Girls like man with many layers... so, you should show yourself in little pieces, and just for the ones who deserve it.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.