She just changed her profile name on Match.com - Input Needed

[bootmeup]

Hello All,

Heres the question. A women I am dating changed her profile name once we started dating and my guess is that so I would think she was no longer looking around, but to keep her options open.

I am dating several other women at this time as well myself, and there is no current exclusive agreement with this women.

What would you fellows make of this?

Thanks.

 

[MacAvoy]

If you are seeing other women and don't really care if she sees other guys, then who cares. I would keep dating her and having fun. She might be a little insecure or whatever but no big deal, unless she starts to fluff you off, or maybe she changed the profile because some AFC wouldn't leave her alone. Either way, don't read too much into it, just keep up the DJ'ing and everything will work out.

 

[NewMan]

I'd create a new email address and reply to it.

See what she says and what she does.

Then I'd let her know it was me - and tell her that I really didn't give a damn if she saw other guys - because your seeing other women

 

[WaterTiger]

DUDE! What's with the double standard? You're dating other girls, but she has to sit by the phone and wait for you to call? She's looking for other guys because you have't TOLD her not to.

If you want to go exclusive then tell her, DON'T ASK, TELL HER:
"Look woman! You're going to close that Match.com account right now. You're either with me or you're gone! Make up your mind and do it fast because I have other options."

(I know this is contrary to what Doc Love says, but I'm an old fashioned girl and I like the guy to take the lead in a relationship. Acting all cool and distant may raise other women's interest levels, I see it as being passive and that I run the show. This is just me! Other oppinions may differ!)

 

[fm2]

What's her profile name? I wanna check her out But seriously...

Casually mention that you like her new name, then ask why the change.