Aight I tried using the search feature but it kept giving me way to many threads on completely different topics.
Anyway, there is this woman I know from down south that finally graduated and moved back home which is only 2 miles from mine.
We are friends from a waterski team and were planning to meet up here and there now that life has gotten back to normal. No more skiing for me, new job stabalizing here for her.
Well tomorow night was a Holloween party that she invited me to a week ago. I call her tonight to get info on where and when this is. When she gets on the phone she doesnt sound all good but I just go on saying how nationals was great, i need to fill you in on it all, and whats going on for tomorow night. She gives me the info and I then ask how her weekend was, she says it sucked due to BF issues, I ask what happened and she mentions how she ended it with him right before I called.
So im kinda in the middle of things. I dont want to act all cold and not caring, but at the same time i dont want to become a big panzy and listen to all her complaining, comfort her, and say something stupid how i should be the guy she is with.. (for example, i would never do this)
I think i left it in the clear but i wasnt sure if i should have asked her if she wanted to meet up for a quick bite or something or just leave it like i did with a nice note saying ill be there tomorow and she sounded like she would really like that. (she invites mostly friends from her HS days she knew and such since all her college friends still live down south.)
Ok enough story telling. I always do that.
I guess what I'm asking now is what do I do now.
I have the worst problem with meeting women I like that all already have a BF. Finally I have a shot at a beautiful, fun, smart, woman that is single but I do not want to move to quick or anything that would spook her or anything. I definitly will not bring him up any tomorow night but what can I do to just keep the ball rolling in my favor? I'm guessing just act casual, stay cool, have a good time, and show her that im not a dumbass that doesn't care about her. Care without caring too much so to speak. I was also thinking if i could setup a little date that might take her mind off things later next week. Some action date like dancing but if need be, a movie or just a drive would work.
Anyway, there is this woman I know from down south that finally graduated and moved back home which is only 2 miles from mine.
We are friends from a waterski team and were planning to meet up here and there now that life has gotten back to normal. No more skiing for me, new job stabalizing here for her.
Well tomorow night was a Holloween party that she invited me to a week ago. I call her tonight to get info on where and when this is. When she gets on the phone she doesnt sound all good but I just go on saying how nationals was great, i need to fill you in on it all, and whats going on for tomorow night. She gives me the info and I then ask how her weekend was, she says it sucked due to BF issues, I ask what happened and she mentions how she ended it with him right before I called.
So im kinda in the middle of things. I dont want to act all cold and not caring, but at the same time i dont want to become a big panzy and listen to all her complaining, comfort her, and say something stupid how i should be the guy she is with.. (for example, i would never do this)
I think i left it in the clear but i wasnt sure if i should have asked her if she wanted to meet up for a quick bite or something or just leave it like i did with a nice note saying ill be there tomorow and she sounded like she would really like that. (she invites mostly friends from her HS days she knew and such since all her college friends still live down south.)
Ok enough story telling. I always do that.
I guess what I'm asking now is what do I do now.
I have the worst problem with meeting women I like that all already have a BF. Finally I have a shot at a beautiful, fun, smart, woman that is single but I do not want to move to quick or anything that would spook her or anything. I definitly will not bring him up any tomorow night but what can I do to just keep the ball rolling in my favor? I'm guessing just act casual, stay cool, have a good time, and show her that im not a dumbass that doesn't care about her. Care without caring too much so to speak. I was also thinking if i could setup a little date that might take her mind off things later next week. Some action date like dancing but if need be, a movie or just a drive would work.