"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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She jokingly mentioned she's in a relationship. Do I abort or proceed?

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I'm taking a new marketing training and I met this girl in my class taking the same course. She's smart, I'd say an 8/10, I know she's really attracted to me.
I was going to ask her out this weekend but yesterday we were just playfighting in class, it got really intense and midway she instantly said she's in a relationship jokingly.

What does she mean by this? Although i kind of laughed it off.
But she messaged me later in the day asking about my day.. I haven't responded up until now which is unlike me.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Just ask her. Don't pvssyfoot around it.
 
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Creativemindreader said:
yesterday we were just playfighting in class, it got really intense and midway she instantly said she's in a relationship jokingly.

What does she mean by this?
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She was just having fun with you and then realized you may think she's into you, but she's not and she let you know so you don't have any false expectations.

You're friendzoned...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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