"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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She jokingly mentioned she's in a relationship. Do I abort or proceed?

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I'm taking a new marketing training and I met this girl in my class taking the same course. She's smart, I'd say an 8/10, I know she's really attracted to me.
I was going to ask her out this weekend but yesterday we were just playfighting in class, it got really intense and midway she instantly said she's in a relationship jokingly.

What does she mean by this? Although i kind of laughed it off.
But she messaged me later in the day asking about my day.. I haven't responded up until now which is unlike me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Just ask her. Don't pvssyfoot around it.
 
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Creativemindreader said:
yesterday we were just playfighting in class, it got really intense and midway she instantly said she's in a relationship jokingly.

What does she mean by this?
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She was just having fun with you and then realized you may think she's into you, but she's not and she let you know so you don't have any false expectations.

You're friendzoned...
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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