"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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she is so cold

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hey guys i really need your help.
Now i have been going out with my girl for a month now, i have been doing my best to keep her happy and do normal things which shows affection. Dont worry i am not a AFC so none of that newbie stuff. I have been doing things ok from the start, but now i must make the important decision. I have strong feelings for her, but i dont know if she feels the same way about me, shes a great girl and i dont want to lose her. I know i am supposed to just walk away because there are many girls out there, but i really feel like she is the one for me, problem is i dont think she feels the same way about me. Those of you who study psychology has probably heard of insecure/avoidant type of girls, she is one of them and i do think she has feelings for me, is just that she is cold. She never calls me and never text me, her sister knows how to play games but i dont know if she is playing games with me. She is always laughing and having fun while she is with me, but then sometimes she ignores me and sometimes seems tired of seeing me. I see her average 2 times a week. I am a good DJ. SHOULD I CONTINUE ON WITH MY RELATIONSHIP? COULD YOU EVER CHANGE COLD GIRLS?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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generally, if you have to ask if she should be nexted, deep down you already know the answer
 
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Hmm

I have the same problem with a girl right now, Just take attention Away Man, Dont Call Her Text Her, You Know Do Your Own Thing Bro, And Maybe She Will Feel That Lonliness And She Will Want You To Make It Special, If Not Shes A Cold hearted Bytch And U Should Dump Her
 
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