"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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she is so cold

Zerotwoonenine

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hey guys i really need your help.
Now i have been going out with my girl for a month now, i have been doing my best to keep her happy and do normal things which shows affection. Dont worry i am not a AFC so none of that newbie stuff. I have been doing things ok from the start, but now i must make the important decision. I have strong feelings for her, but i dont know if she feels the same way about me, shes a great girl and i dont want to lose her. I know i am supposed to just walk away because there are many girls out there, but i really feel like she is the one for me, problem is i dont think she feels the same way about me. Those of you who study psychology has probably heard of insecure/avoidant type of girls, she is one of them and i do think she has feelings for me, is just that she is cold. She never calls me and never text me, her sister knows how to play games but i dont know if she is playing games with me. She is always laughing and having fun while she is with me, but then sometimes she ignores me and sometimes seems tired of seeing me. I see her average 2 times a week. I am a good DJ. SHOULD I CONTINUE ON WITH MY RELATIONSHIP? COULD YOU EVER CHANGE COLD GIRLS?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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THE_ADDMAN

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generally, if you have to ask if she should be nexted, deep down you already know the answer
 

HollowHorizon

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Hmm

I have the same problem with a girl right now, Just take attention Away Man, Dont Call Her Text Her, You Know Do Your Own Thing Bro, And Maybe She Will Feel That Lonliness And She Will Want You To Make It Special, If Not Shes A Cold hearted Bytch And U Should Dump Her
 
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