She is richer. Will she respect me?

[nvictor]

Hello DJs,

It's not a real story. But it's something I'm thinking of. What happen often
in my country is that when the woman is richer, she doesn't respect the
man.

I'm trying to assure myself that, using all DJ's techniques would get rid of
the money problem. But is it true? Is it possible to live with a woman who
has a better paying job, and make her respect you?

Opinions wanted, thanks

 

[Nasman]

First of all where do you live. Second of all money will not do anything for you with a girl. In the short run yes, but in long run no. I don't care if ur richer than bill gates if a woman marries u only for money she will never respect u and something will always be missing in relationship.

 

[gherald]

money is not essential to earn respect...

sure,money will earn you respect but you will also earn it even if you dont...

 

[MisterNigma]

Why should money an issue?

Be upfront about what you have, as far as money is concerned, and it shouldn't become an issue. So what if she makes more then you. One thing is for sure, you don't want to get into a relationship where you, or the woman become entirely dependent on each other for finances.

Besides, if she's richer, that means there is no way she can be a gold digger. A gold digger might be fun for a night or two, but would backfire in the longrun.


-E.Nigma

 

[Latinoman]

Hello DJs,

It's not a real story. But it's something I'm thinking of. What happen often
in my country is that when the woman is richer, she doesn't respect the
man.

I'm trying to assure myself that, using all DJ's techniques would get rid of
the money problem. But is it true? Is it possible to live with a woman who
has a better paying job, and make her respect you?

Opinions wanted, thanks

Having a better paying job is NOT the same as being "richer".

 

[Thomas94305]

I've dated someone who is much richer than me. First, I don't make a big deal of it. Second, it's a test on her, can she be a good friend, encouraging, respectful, etc.. given she has cash? If so.. cool. If not, my lot is not better off if I keep her around. Recommend you stick to what you are looking for in a companion, and continue to look for that from any rich or non-rich woman.

 

[nvictor]

Have you thought of the case you are invited to a party with her co-workers??
By rich, I mean really, really rich. Millionaire. These people act and do different things all the time...

 

[dj ben2]

when u get a millionaire GF you may have to change a few things but right now DW aobut it and stop being insecure.

 

[BlackJackal]

Man make the money, money never made the man. Even if you do have more money, you need to let these chicks no that they should only worry about you, and let you worry about your money. If she's too good to respect you then dont waste time on her. Respect is everything.

 

[Charm]

I dont even let anyone including my good male friends know how much I make. Why would I? Its not anyones business except your own.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

It'll only be an issue if you use money as a measurment of your self worth.

 

[THE_ADDMAN]

It'll only be an issue if you use money as a measurment of your self worth.

exactly

Better question is
"She is richer, do I respect myself?"

 

[Thomas94305]

Props to Francisco.. it's a non-issue. If she makes it an issue, then I'd make her behavior the issue.