"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
She is probably talking to other guys and i feel i did a mistake by breaking the contact.
- Thread starter hell29
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Tell her ljbf, let her see how it feels. I don't know why you guys like to coddle these chicks after they miss behave to you. I got this chick now texting me as we speak trying to get me to take her out. When i asked her the first time she made excuses, now all of a sudden (I guess it didn't work out with the other guy lol) she wants to go out with me? Lol these woman must take us man for idiots. I read her texts and did not respond.
And to OP, forget that chick man. Find another, concentrate on improving yourself, but most importantly read the DonJuan Bible and listen to the guys on this forum.
I know profile shows me as a "new member", but i've been visiting the sosuave website and forum from the time i was your age (22 i believe i read). Off and on, more off than on (to my own detriment). Now i am 30, i realized that i probably should've been reading it more often. I have come to the conclusion that the DJ Bible is the gospel truth, follow it's commandments fully and you will be OK. There is no wiggle room. This chick dissed you, the only text you should probably reply to her with is to f-off. But showing your fustration won't help either so just forget her and move on.
Oh and what you thinking trying to get married at 22 man?
