"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She is probably talking to other guys and i feel i did a mistake by breaking the contact.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Tell her ljbf, let her see how it feels. I don't know why you guys like to coddle these chicks after they miss behave to you. I got this chick now texting me as we speak trying to get me to take her out. When i asked her the first time she made excuses, now all of a sudden (I guess it didn't work out with the other guy lol) she wants to go out with me? Lol these woman must take us man for idiots. I read her texts and did not respond.
And to OP, forget that chick man. Find another, concentrate on improving yourself, but most importantly read the DonJuan Bible and listen to the guys on this forum.
I know profile shows me as a "new member", but i've been visiting the sosuave website and forum from the time i was your age (22 i believe i read). Off and on, more off than on (to my own detriment). Now i am 30, i realized that i probably should've been reading it more often. I have come to the conclusion that the DJ Bible is the gospel truth, follow it's commandments fully and you will be OK. There is no wiggle room. This chick dissed you, the only text you should probably reply to her with is to f-off. But showing your fustration won't help either so just forget her and move on.
Oh and what you thinking trying to get married at 22 man?
