"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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She is playing hard to get

The Great One

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So I am planning on just not talking to her at all tomorrow, maybe just a quick hello in the morning instead of the multiple short conversations I normally have with her througout the day. Anyone have any other advice?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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maybe she just dosent like you, did she ever seem intrested?, did she stop?, its a toss up, just know when youve been defeated
 

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Oh, I know, she seems very interested. So much so that even all of my friends are telling me that they think she is interested in me. We exchanged numbers and all, and hung out once with a group of people, I am just looking for an actual date now, so I figured I would throw her off a little bit by not really talking to her tomorrow.
 

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Worked pretty well:

Saw her in the morning, made her walk me to class instead of me walking her to her class.

Saw her in the middle of the day, walked past her and acted like I didn't hear her when she said hi.

At the end of the day, I saw her and said "Wow, didn't really see you today. Let's go grab a bite to eat." She accepted, but we ended up running into a group of friends from school so we ended up sitting and eating with them. I just need to get this girl alone, which is proving to be pretty difficult.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Just ask her out. Stop with the 'i'm not going to talk to her much today and throw her off'. They are stupid games, girls play games. Men Don't.

Ask her out on a date - if shes interested she will say yes - theres nothing difficult about it.
 

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Sammo said:
Ask her out on a date - if shes interested she will say yes - theres nothing difficult about it.
That is what the plan was for the end of the day today, but my luck never seems to be with me and we end up in groups. Out of the two times we have hung out, both ended up in group situations. :cuss:
 

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rent a movie (scary = kino) and invite her over. maybe if you're a little lucky, "groups" won't be waiting for you at your house. heh.
 
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