"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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She is leaving me!!

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MAn man man my girl is leaving me!!!!!!!

hahaha SIKE!!! not like that

Well she actually is leaving me but not like that, she found another job and got hired there, so i will no longer be working with her no more, wich means that i wont be seeing her as often cause to be honest with yall, work was the main and basicly only place that we saw each other at, we even used our breaks to go home and have sex, so im sure that sex wil be cutted down too cause of the schedule.

Dang this kinda hit me harder than i thought it would....i guess that now the insecurity part comes in hand, since she has had a history of being with men she worked with...

hehe,
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DJDamage

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That is the best thing that could have happen to you!

I was in the same situation like yours before I found this site and this girl which I was infatuated with dump me for another guy that works there!

Being heartbroken and seeing your chick every week at work while she is in love with another dude that works there, was the ultimate kick in the groin. You can't really get over it if you are constantly reminded of this.

My policy from now on is to seperate work and dating completly.

as someone before me once said:

"Don't Sh1t Where You Eat!"
 

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Dont get me wrong here^^^

She didnt dump me for nobody, niether did i, we still together, just that she is leaving the job for another better one, that place we at now its straight sh1t, lol. im looking for another one too.
 

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She just showed up in my house smothered in penkittens cake. Sorry buddy
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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