"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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She is leaving me!!

Plain & Simple

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MAn man man my girl is leaving me!!!!!!!

hahaha SIKE!!! not like that

Well she actually is leaving me but not like that, she found another job and got hired there, so i will no longer be working with her no more, wich means that i wont be seeing her as often cause to be honest with yall, work was the main and basicly only place that we saw each other at, we even used our breaks to go home and have sex, so im sure that sex wil be cutted down too cause of the schedule.

Dang this kinda hit me harder than i thought it would....i guess that now the insecurity part comes in hand, since she has had a history of being with men she worked with...

hehe,
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DJDamage

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That is the best thing that could have happen to you!

I was in the same situation like yours before I found this site and this girl which I was infatuated with dump me for another guy that works there!

Being heartbroken and seeing your chick every week at work while she is in love with another dude that works there, was the ultimate kick in the groin. You can't really get over it if you are constantly reminded of this.

My policy from now on is to seperate work and dating completly.

as someone before me once said:

"Don't Sh1t Where You Eat!"
 

Plain & Simple

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Dont get me wrong here^^^

She didnt dump me for nobody, niether did i, we still together, just that she is leaving the job for another better one, that place we at now its straight sh1t, lol. im looking for another one too.
 

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She just showed up in my house smothered in penkittens cake. Sorry buddy
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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