"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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She is going to break up with his boyfriend!!!!

phoenix_met

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Hey guys
Long time ago I met a girl.she was so sweet and little shy.I was attracted very much when I saw her.and I act wuss then.and ruined everything.

last day I saw she is online in Y.messenger and I started chatting.but this time with a ****ey Funny attitude.I teased her a lot and never came as a needy.then she saw my profile (I workout a lot ....).I asked her out like this:

HB:I have a boyfriend.
Me:anyway,I'll be happy to see you again.
HB:eek:k.....I'm going to break up with my boyfriend.then I'll call you.

Isn't it funny.a little wussiness can terminate everything and a little confidence can do such a thing.

What do you think guys??Thats amazing!!
If she calls me the puzzle will be completed?? CONFIDENCE IS EVERYTHING
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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lildevil

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talk is cheap.....

Dont be carrried away...remember talk is cheap...

remember THIS well done!!!!is better than well said.....

And confidence is not just being confident with ur words its being equally balanced....show that ur the same in the inside as the outside the whole package....

I liked when u said Anyway it was really good....u couldn't have done it better for a transtion....Dont get a big head about this...IT wasnt enough to make her go away fom her Bf...
 
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ThunderMaverick

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phoenix_met said:
HB:I have a boyfriend.
Me:anyway,I'll be happy to see you again.
HB:eek:k.....I'm going to break up with my boyfriend.then I'll call you.
You ****ing idiot. She was being sarcastic. You've never heard of sarcasm? She said she had a boyfriend, you chose to ignore her "let's not take it further" subtext and she became a smart ass.

She said it like "yeah like I'll just put everything that's important to me to the side and jump on top of you [/sarcasm]"

*sigh* What's wrong with people on this forum?
 

Gangster Of Love

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phoenix_met said:
Hey guys
Long time ago I met a girl.she was so sweet and little shy.I was attracted very much when I saw her.and I act wuss then.and ruined everything.

last day I saw she is online in Y.messenger and I started chatting.but this time with a ****ey Funny attitude.I teased her a lot and never came as a needy.then she saw my profile (I workout a lot ....).I asked her out like this:

HB:I have a boyfriend.
Me:anyway,I'll be happy to see you again.
HB:eek:k.....I'm going to break up with my boyfriend.then I'll call you.

Isn't it funny.a little wussiness can terminate everything and a little confidence can do such a thing.

What do you think guys??Thats amazing!!
If she calls me the puzzle will be completed?? CONFIDENCE IS EVERYTHING

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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phoenix_met

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ThunderMaverick said:
You ****ing idiot. She was being sarcastic. You've never heard of sarcasm? She said she had a boyfriend, you chose to ignore her "let's not take it further" subtext and she became a smart ass.

She said it like "yeah like I'll just put everything that's important to me to the side and jump on top of you [/sarcasm]"

*sigh* What's wrong with people on this forum?
hey
When I say I acted confident I mean it.......I don't give her a chance to fool me.....may be I couldn't write it good for you......You can feel sarcasm when someone do it...there are better ways for make joke of someone even in your own mind......May be her boyfriend is a wuss!!!and she doesn't like him!!!
anyway I told you I'm waiting for the outcomes in the next weeks???
I am not concentrate on this particular girl
 

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Basically 'don't call us, we'll call you' and I bet she'll never call you.
 
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