"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She is going to break up with his boyfriend!!!!

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Hey guys
Long time ago I met a girl.she was so sweet and little shy.I was attracted very much when I saw her.and I act wuss then.and ruined everything.

last day I saw she is online in Y.messenger and I started chatting.but this time with a ****ey Funny attitude.I teased her a lot and never came as a needy.then she saw my profile (I workout a lot ....).I asked her out like this:

HB:I have a boyfriend.
Me:anyway,I'll be happy to see you again.
HB:eek:k.....I'm going to break up with my boyfriend.then I'll call you.

Isn't it funny.a little wussiness can terminate everything and a little confidence can do such a thing.

What do you think guys??Thats amazing!!
If she calls me the puzzle will be completed?? CONFIDENCE IS EVERYTHING
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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talk is cheap.....

Dont be carrried away...remember talk is cheap...

remember THIS well done!!!!is better than well said.....

And confidence is not just being confident with ur words its being equally balanced....show that ur the same in the inside as the outside the whole package....

I liked when u said Anyway it was really good....u couldn't have done it better for a transtion....Dont get a big head about this...IT wasnt enough to make her go away fom her Bf...
 
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phoenix_met said:
HB:I have a boyfriend.
Me:anyway,I'll be happy to see you again.
HB:eek:k.....I'm going to break up with my boyfriend.then I'll call you.
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You ****ing idiot. She was being sarcastic. You've never heard of sarcasm? She said she had a boyfriend, you chose to ignore her "let's not take it further" subtext and she became a smart ass.

She said it like "yeah like I'll just put everything that's important to me to the side and jump on top of you [/sarcasm]"

*sigh* What's wrong with people on this forum?
 
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phoenix_met said:
Hey guys
Long time ago I met a girl.she was so sweet and little shy.I was attracted very much when I saw her.and I act wuss then.and ruined everything.

last day I saw she is online in Y.messenger and I started chatting.but this time with a ****ey Funny attitude.I teased her a lot and never came as a needy.then she saw my profile (I workout a lot ....).I asked her out like this:

HB:I have a boyfriend.
Me:anyway,I'll be happy to see you again.
HB:eek:k.....I'm going to break up with my boyfriend.then I'll call you.

Isn't it funny.a little wussiness can terminate everything and a little confidence can do such a thing.

What do you think guys??Thats amazing!!
If she calls me the puzzle will be completed?? CONFIDENCE IS EVERYTHING
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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phoenix_met

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ThunderMaverick said:
You ****ing idiot. She was being sarcastic. You've never heard of sarcasm? She said she had a boyfriend, you chose to ignore her "let's not take it further" subtext and she became a smart ass.

She said it like "yeah like I'll just put everything that's important to me to the side and jump on top of you [/sarcasm]"

*sigh* What's wrong with people on this forum?
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hey
When I say I acted confident I mean it.......I don't give her a chance to fool me.....may be I couldn't write it good for you......You can feel sarcasm when someone do it...there are better ways for make joke of someone even in your own mind......May be her boyfriend is a wuss!!!and she doesn't like him!!!
anyway I told you I'm waiting for the outcomes in the next weeks???
I am not concentrate on this particular girl
 
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Basically 'don't call us, we'll call you' and I bet she'll never call you.
 
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