"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I have this chick and she is so desperate to be my GF. She keeps calling herself that. However, we work together and there is another coworker at the job, who is now her supervisor, that she used to sleep with. I am working in another department, and I see her flirting with other customers and laughing with the supervisor. I am cool with that. However, she was hitting him in a flirty manner. I play it cool and not mention it. How do I deal with this situation?


Ps, this is putting me in a bad place. I am stressed out dealing with this, but sometimes too stressed to feel like going out to find other options.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Attention wh0re. Nothing more. There should be no reason for you to stress over ONE girl. Let alone this girl. Start seeing and talking to other girls. This is the CURE for this "boyfriend and girlfriend"-itis your feeling.

In the meantime since your new. Please check out the DJ (Don Juan) Bible.

Link: http://www.nick-hill.com/djb/

This collaboration of many articles from this site gives you ALL the answers your seeking right at your fingertips.

Again, move on from her because it will only make you feel worse and when she finds out your like a little puppy to her. She will either take advantage of your feeling or just drop you because your showing DESPERATION!

Girls can sniff desperation miles away. They hate this.

Hope this helps.
 
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Reno89 said:
I have this chick and she is so desperate to be my GF. She keeps calling herself that. However, we work together and there is another coworker at the job, who is now her supervisor, that she used to sleep with. I am working in another department, and I see her flirting with other customers and laughing with the supervisor. I am cool with that. However, she was hitting him in a flirty manner. I play it cool and not mention it. How do I deal with this situation?

Ps, this is putting me in a bad place. I am stressed out dealing with this, but sometimes too stressed to feel like going out to find other options.
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How do you deal with the situation?

If you want her, then get her outside of the office for some drinks and stop playing "flirting games" with her. I'm assuming that you're not actually dating her (as in, sleeping with her) because it sounds like you're not.

If you don't want her, then proceed as usual. I mean, if she's not actually YOURS, then why shouldn't she flirt with whoever she wants?

DISCLAIMER: Most people would recommend AGAINST dating in the office.
 
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@Iceberg, we have been sleeping together for the last 5 months.

@bcolon, She is the only one that wants a relationship
 
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Hehehe i think you are being played! I hope the puzzy is worth it! :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Doesn't seem to me like you are "cool with it" if her flirting is making it so you can't go out and find new women. If it's bothering you, walk away from it. Women will run jealousy tactics because they know how the human brain works. These things increase attraction. They only work if you let them though. Right now, you seeing her doing these things is only hurting you. Either cut her off, find someone new, or pursue her as more than an FB. I don't understand how you can not want a relationship with someone then get upset when they flirt with other people. You sound like a woman.
 
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So she wants a relationship, you don't, but you're jealous of her flirting with others...
 
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So let me get this straight. Even though she is feeling up on another dude while I am around, I should not feel disrespected?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yeah. If this girl likes you a lot she is teasing you or playing games with you to get you:

a) jealous
b) desperate for her pvssy
c) lost interest
d) use you as an 'make me feel good tampon'

Go ghost. Once you do that it's either she likes you enough and she will call and want to be around you.
 
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If she doesn't contact you then you know your answer. If she does then continue to smash but do not dwell on this girl. Spin more plates.
 
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