She interested in me? or we just friends?

[Life-Trainee]

Ok, let me start off by saying that i'm no DJ and I have troubles communicating with women (dont we all). My best friend's GF has her classmate join our company once in a while. This chick is the first one that I had almost no problem talking with. She's really down to earth and doesn't throw regular BS that women usually do, she's pretty straight forward in what i've seen. Best of all, we got similar personalities. Lately, she's been hanging out with us regulary and we're really like buds now, but I haven't asked for her phone number yet. I always initiate conversations with her about random stuff etc. Now, I'm sort of interested in this chick. She cute, probably a 7. In our conversations she briefly mentionded her "guy". I guess that means her boyfriend. She's originally from California and goes here in Boston to college. I talked to my friend's GF and she confirmed that this chick indeed has a boyfriend in California. Now, that doesn't concern me right. I'll offer a date next time I see her. And if she mentions BF, i'll probably play the "Well, he's in a different zip code so this isnt cheating" or "{With a playful tone} He isn't here is he?", or (insert your BF response here). I did ask her once whether she'd consider a threesome or an orgy and she said yes! So she's open to sexual experimentation. My question is, we seem to get along very well, similar personality etc. But, is she interested in me as a friend or something beyond? I'm pretty sure i'll find out soon, and I do have a gut feeling that she is interested in me. I'm just speculating.

 

[Life-Trainee]

Silence speaks much louder than words...

 

[Life-Trainee]

*bump*

 

[MetalFortress]

The reason nobody's answering is because you need to find this out for yourself.

 

[Life-Trainee]

I would feel better for myself if I arranged it by myself of course. Next time i see her I'll do what i'm supposed to. However, do I just ask for her phone # or just straight out "Hey, let's go on a date. Give me your phone #"? Latter one is more appealing to me because I want to clearly state my intentions. This whole thing with her is very convenient because she lives pretty close to me and i dont have a car.
She is studying here and does want to stay here because she finds california boring. Whether that actually happens is uncertain. She's only 17 about to turn 18 and is a freshman at college. I'm senior in different college.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

One of the first things I learned about seducing women is WHAT and HOW you talk to them. Think about it. A girl can talk about school, work or the party the past weekend with just about anybody. But if you make your time with her count, meaning you spark her interest, you playfully tease her and bust her ballz she'll remember you and think of you in a better light. Girls want to be seduced, they want to be put in their place by the dominant male!! Its just that nowdays so many guys have turned into little sissys that the girls are left with a small pool of real men to choose from.

Also you should be able to tell if she's interested in you by her non-verbal signs. Does she touch you? Does she make/maintain long EC? Does she flirt with you? Pull back a little bit and make her come to you. You said you always initiate the conversation...well see if she sparks it up next time. And remember don't mention or ask about her bf. If she's into you, she'll have no problem hooking up. Its this weird chick logic where they feel as long as they tell you that they have a bf, then its ok to cheat if it happens. I dunno why they do that, but I'm not complaining...



PIMP

 

[Life-Trainee]

That's the aspect that I'm having troubles with. I'm not very creative in being playfully teasing etc. My friends can do it with amazing ease, they'll just start about some off the wall topic and drive girls crazy. I haven't learned to do that yet. Also, i'm well aware that if a girl is willing to talk to me, that doesnt automatically mean that she would wanna have any relationship with me. I guess i'm blindsighted by my search for a female.

 

[Bonhomme]

It's a learning process ...

You just have to keep playing it. You'll improve with time, trust me.

 

[AFK Protector]

I've got a friend....a girl....she's most likely single....when we're alone, she laughs and does normal stuff, but in a crowd or in class, she's quiet as hell. I dunno...I'm starting to hate this.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

If a girl is telling you that she would be up for a 'threesome or an orgy" than I'm 100% sure she would cheat on her supposed so-called boyfriend! That is if she is interested in the guy. What do u have to lose? Get her drunk and she'll experiment, I'm sure!