Hey guys, I met this girl and texted with her for like two weeks everyday. Then she stopped responding all of a sudden. After two or three texts with no response, I stopped as well. A week later, she called me to see if I wanted to hang out but I wasn't in town that day. After I came back, I texted her and again no response. I decided to call her but also no response. So I sent out this text "This is boring. I will stop texting." No response. Then again we stopped talking. I kinda regret sending that last text. It's gonna make me look like a total loser if I text her again -- breaking my own words. Is there anything else I can try? Should I move on?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
She Ignores My Text
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Why were you texting her for two weeks everyday? She has slotted you into the "friends" part of her brain.Sieg Yang said:
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After stating that you were done texting her, you kind of painted yourself into a corner. Now you can't text her or you'll look ridiculous. She'll probably contact you in a week or so and want to chat.Sieg Yang said:
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Your princess is in another castle. Go ghost and if she's interested (don't hold your breath), she'll call.
Case closed. Get out of my court.
Case closed. Get out of my court.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
nismo-4, I am having similar situation. Have gone NC with the girl who's a bad texter for about two weeks. I'm not sure if she will ever contact me again.nismo-4 said:
My question is, what to do when she texts you or call you? She probably will never again. I just want to know just in case she does...
Okay. You can't text a girl for two weeks straight. I'm even surprised she kept responding for that long. Your first text convo should be short and to the point of asking her out. Apply this in the future. You can't build attraction over text. It's faceless, cold and devoid of human feelings that you can generate in person.Sieg Yang said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Give her little attention.LeonSK said: