"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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She hints i should buy her stuff

Francisco d'Anconia

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Vypros said:
lol

You just simply aren't listening to what I am saying, because we pretty much agree. You're just choosing to discount the "cliche" part of my post because you don't think it's important, and it is.
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EVERY WOMAN HAS AN INTRINSIC NEED TO FEEL WANTED, LOVED, AND THOUGHT ABOUT. THE TECHNIQUES YOU USE TO ACCOMPLISH THIS ARE ENTIRELY UP TO YOU.


Francisco d'Anconia said:
Agreed, it's called appreciating them.
You must have discounted the first part of my post when I said that I agreed with you.

So explain why your list of cliches are important.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
You must have discounted the first part of my post when I said that I agreed with you.

So explain why your list of cliches are important.
It's not about the LIST. Those were just suggestions that have been KNOWN to work. They are cliches for a reason.

Make your own list. Who cares? The point that I'm trying to convey is the need to SHOW HER through your actions that you:

1. Want her
2. Love her
3. Think about her

How you do that is up to you, but simply "telling her" isn't enough. Simply having sex with her isn't enough (although sex is pretty key in showing her that you WANT her). There has to be MORE.
 

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Cremasta said:
This is exactly why my gf gets presents!

Did she always do that, or did u train her that way. I wish i knew a way to induce my gf to do that lol. In my opinion, when u have to ask it totally kills it. Cuz i feel like a jerkoff. It's so much better if she just does it. You dont wanan sit there thinking that u just made ur gf do somehtin she is prob disgusted by. I never let girls know im disgusted by goin down on them. Usually im not, but occasionally the smell aint so hot or the taste. I think they have it easier when it comes to oral sex, yea they gotta take a load in their mouth (either spitting or swallowing - both im sure are not pleasant) but thats just at the end once its out of their mouth thats it, so all in all they got ur load in their mouth for like 10-15 seconds. The majority of the ******* is just sucking on a dry penis which doesnt smell and shoudlnt taste bad if u shower of course. If u dont wash ur balls then thats another story. Guys on the other hand have to smell and taste bad stuff the entire time.
 
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