Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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She hints i should buy her stuff

Francisco d'Anconia

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Vypros said:
lol

You just simply aren't listening to what I am saying, because we pretty much agree. You're just choosing to discount the "cliche" part of my post because you don't think it's important, and it is.
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EVERY WOMAN HAS AN INTRINSIC NEED TO FEEL WANTED, LOVED, AND THOUGHT ABOUT. THE TECHNIQUES YOU USE TO ACCOMPLISH THIS ARE ENTIRELY UP TO YOU.


Francisco d'Anconia said:
Agreed, it's called appreciating them.
You must have discounted the first part of my post when I said that I agreed with you.

So explain why your list of cliches are important.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
You must have discounted the first part of my post when I said that I agreed with you.

So explain why your list of cliches are important.
It's not about the LIST. Those were just suggestions that have been KNOWN to work. They are cliches for a reason.

Make your own list. Who cares? The point that I'm trying to convey is the need to SHOW HER through your actions that you:

1. Want her
2. Love her
3. Think about her

How you do that is up to you, but simply "telling her" isn't enough. Simply having sex with her isn't enough (although sex is pretty key in showing her that you WANT her). There has to be MORE.
 

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Cremasta said:
This is exactly why my gf gets presents!

Did she always do that, or did u train her that way. I wish i knew a way to induce my gf to do that lol. In my opinion, when u have to ask it totally kills it. Cuz i feel like a jerkoff. It's so much better if she just does it. You dont wanan sit there thinking that u just made ur gf do somehtin she is prob disgusted by. I never let girls know im disgusted by goin down on them. Usually im not, but occasionally the smell aint so hot or the taste. I think they have it easier when it comes to oral sex, yea they gotta take a load in their mouth (either spitting or swallowing - both im sure are not pleasant) but thats just at the end once its out of their mouth thats it, so all in all they got ur load in their mouth for like 10-15 seconds. The majority of the ******* is just sucking on a dry penis which doesnt smell and shoudlnt taste bad if u shower of course. If u dont wash ur balls then thats another story. Guys on the other hand have to smell and taste bad stuff the entire time.
 
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