"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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she have a BF!!! but i like her!!! how?

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harvard3

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i just met a girl at friendster...
she is great...but she got a bf...but the bf loook suck!!!
i get her msn...
i msg her at msn........
i said hey...she do reply...
after all..i asked wat she doing...
she nvr reply...
is there anything i can do/?
hope u guy can help me out!!!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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donjuanjovi

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I would start by learning english.
 
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Improve yourself. What you have right now is mental mastrubation. Yea, you can take her, if you have enough game, which is not the case. Forget her, and work on yourself.

You see, PUA, the information you are looking for on these forums, is not a thing you do, i.e. it is not a technique. PUA is a state of mind, which you must reach through study and practice.

Right now, though, there is nothing you can do. Let this hopelessness motivate you to change.


Here is something else to help you. Women in relationship would often sick an ego stroking, such as flirt with you, and then let you know they have bf, after you bite. So, she made you like her by being nice and sexy for you, but you can't have her, because she has bf. You can hate the b1tch because she toyed with you, instead of get broke over that hoe. Perhaps what she did, and my info made you realize a new way forward..//
 
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ryannath

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If she speaks normal english, then she probably thinks you are a retard. No, there is nothing you can do.
 
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Alphamale1821

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well if your english is as nearly bad as it is when you speak then thats a problem right there. Work on your grammar and your inner game before trying to get a girl who has a bf. This place isn't for quick fixes we won't hold your hands and tell you step by step on what to do. Read the Dj bible and other important articles posted here and when you start to clean yourself up then work on trying to steal another guy's girlfriend. However In your current condition no matter what the bf situation is you have no chance.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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chancer

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you guys have a talent for pointing out the obvious. his english rocks... and?

I have a friend who speaks to latin women in spanish, but his spanish isn't all that great. He's getting better and they're lovin it.
 
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