"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

she have a BF!!! but i like her!!! how?

H

harvard3

New Member
Joined
May 5, 2007
Messages
5
Reaction score
0
i just met a girl at friendster...
she is great...but she got a bf...but the bf loook suck!!!
i get her msn...
i msg her at msn........
i said hey...she do reply...
after all..i asked wat she doing...
she nvr reply...
is there anything i can do/?
hope u guy can help me out!!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

D

donjuanjovi

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 21, 2006
Messages
480
Reaction score
1
Location
Toronto
I would start by learning english.
 
D

djSlvt

Banned
Joined
Mar 19, 2007
Messages
783
Reaction score
2
Location
Falkland Islands, Florida
Improve yourself. What you have right now is mental mastrubation. Yea, you can take her, if you have enough game, which is not the case. Forget her, and work on yourself.

You see, PUA, the information you are looking for on these forums, is not a thing you do, i.e. it is not a technique. PUA is a state of mind, which you must reach through study and practice.

Right now, though, there is nothing you can do. Let this hopelessness motivate you to change.


Here is something else to help you. Women in relationship would often sick an ego stroking, such as flirt with you, and then let you know they have bf, after you bite. So, she made you like her by being nice and sexy for you, but you can't have her, because she has bf. You can hate the b1tch because she toyed with you, instead of get broke over that hoe. Perhaps what she did, and my info made you realize a new way forward..//
 
R

ryannath

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 10, 2006
Messages
715
Reaction score
3
If she speaks normal english, then she probably thinks you are a retard. No, there is nothing you can do.
 
A

Alphamale1821

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 22, 2007
Messages
466
Reaction score
6
Location
Texas
well if your english is as nearly bad as it is when you speak then thats a problem right there. Work on your grammar and your inner game before trying to get a girl who has a bf. This place isn't for quick fixes we won't hold your hands and tell you step by step on what to do. Read the Dj bible and other important articles posted here and when you start to clean yourself up then work on trying to steal another guy's girlfriend. However In your current condition no matter what the bf situation is you have no chance.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

C

chancer

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 25, 2001
Messages
456
Reaction score
0
Age
45
Location
California, USA
you guys have a talent for pointing out the obvious. his english rocks... and?

I have a friend who speaks to latin women in spanish, but his spanish isn't all that great. He's getting better and they're lovin it.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top