"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She Has No "Female Game"...

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I go out with this broad the other night. I pull the typical first date stuff like heavy kino & eye contact. I light it up with neg hits, as usual. The convo was flowing like a smooth flowing tributary. The problem is that this chick has no "game" whatsoever. I could do whatever I want with this girl. Not really much of a challenge.... she's all uptight and nervous, not really given off a heavy sexual vibe like I was looking for. It's obvious she's really into me(because she called me after I dropped her off) but she needs to come to this site so she can read up on recipricating kino and being more comfortable sexually. It was kinda weird. It was like she's never gone out with someone with smooth moves like the fresh prince of bel-air. Kinda turned-off by the whole situation.. She has so much potential though..

If worse comes to worse.. i'll just have to make-love to her then send her on her way.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So.... why didn't you fvk her again??

Girls don't need game... I don't know where you guys are all of a sudden asking why some girls have no game... a woman's game is peacocking, that is all. If a girl's got the personality of week old grapefruit... well, like you said, she might be good for a go or 2.
 

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I know what you're talking about... I have the same problem.
Went out with a chick who had absolutely no game, if i hadn't done anything she would have just went of with a hug.

Instead i seduced her until she gave in.... but it was so much work. It should come more naturally.
It's like she has no sex drive at all until i'm on top of her.

bahh... virgins, NEXT
 

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2_intense2 said:
your right, we have NATURAL talent..:p
Yea i got that too, unfortunately not all girls are blessed with it, as aren't all guys.

in response to sopimp:
because i'm sure he's had blow up dolls that were more fun. :crackup:

It's good to see things going the other way for a change, girls are gonna have to step up their game now.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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um...why is the writting so HUGE, are you trying to compensate for something??

Anyways...

Not really much of a challenge
When the girls to easy you want a challenge?
when the girl is challenging you want someone a little more easier??

bahh... virgins, NEXT
when the girls a virgin, you want her to have a more experience
when the girls experience, you guys have a problem with that...

and guys say females are difficult...right...:rolleyes:
 

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2_intense2 said:
um...why is the writting so HUGE, are you trying to compensate for something??

Anyways...


When the girls to easy you want a challenge?
when the girl is challenging you want someone a little more easier??


when the girls a virgin, you want her to have a more experience
when the girls experience, you guys have a problem with that...

and guys say females are difficult...right...:rolleyes:
I don't have a problem with experience... other guys do. The ones that want a relationship.

She's not easy, just more sexual. What he's talking about is unemotional. Totally unresponsive to anything you do. It's like necrophilia.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Aiite, sounds good. You know it is a friday though... you should try it out on real girls.
 
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